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Scenario: 10 yr relationship and he cheated on year 2, 3 & 10. (2 kids) And yet I stay with him, what's wrong with thinking maybe this time he'll change? He says he loves me. And even after all of it I still love him. He begs for forgiveness and shows me he's gonna change. What would you do if you were the Cheater? And what would you do if you were the one cheated on? 
the reason he is cheating is because he can get away with it....there is nothing you can or should change about yourself...you are NOT responsible for his bad behavior. He does not deserve more chances. I'd confront the woman he is with now and make sure she knows he's married. then divorce him. make sure the judge knows the details....you'll need the money The judge is not going to give a rat's behind if he cheated; especially if (S).he finds out how long she put up with it he Likely to think you knew it, and did nothing about it, so you get exactly what everyone gets in divorce now days; half. Or half of whatever he hasn't already spent or hidden. If you get the house you get to pay whatever back taxes and repairs have not been done while he has been squandering money on his affairs. Courts spend the average of 20 minutes skimming paper work on the divorce, ask a few basic questions, and follow the reccomendations negotiated out in pretrial arbitration. Arbitrator is not going to care who diddled who. You really want revenge then get your life together; up grade your skills, fix your credit, repair your car get new tires, finding housing you can really afford; then dump him with zero warning. Let the bimbo have him; then he will get exactly what he deserves. I guarantee he will probably not want her but he will probably shack up with her, she will probably get pregnant to try and keep him, and he will come crying back to you pleading for you take him back. If you do well then you deserve him. Words of a cold hearted bitter burned woman? |
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Scenario: 10 yr relationship and he cheated on year 2, 3 & 10. (2 kids) And yet I stay with him, what's wrong with thinking maybe this time he'll change? He says he loves me. And even after all of it I still love him. He begs for forgiveness and shows me he's gonna change. What would you do if you were the Cheater? And what would you do if you were the one cheated on?
the reason he is cheating is because he can get away with it....there is nothing you can or should change about yourself...you are NOT responsible for his bad behavior. He does not deserve more chances. I'd confront the woman he is with now and make sure she knows he's married. then divorce him. make sure the judge knows the details....you'll need the money The judge is not going to give a rat's behind if he cheated; especially if (S).he finds out how long she put up with it he Likely to think you knew it, and did nothing about it, so you get exactly what everyone gets in divorce now days; half. Or half of whatever he hasn't already spent or hidden. If you get the house you get to pay whatever back taxes and repairs have not been done while he has been squandering money on his affairs. Courts spend the average of 20 minutes skimming paper work on the divorce, ask a few basic questions, and follow the reccomendations negotiated out in pretrial arbitration. Arbitrator is not going to care who diddled who. You really want revenge then get your life together; up grade your skills, fix your credit, repair your car get new tires, finding housing you can really afford; then dump him with zero warning. Let the bimbo have him; then he will get exactly what he deserves. I guarantee he will probably not want her but he will probably shack up with her, she will probably get pregnant to try and keep him, and he will come crying back to you pleading for you take him back. If you do well then you deserve him. probably some truth here and we all know that California is a legal la la land. most anywhere else she would get custody and child support and the house if she files on infidelity |
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