I am so tired of giving my all t make a woman happy and they ignore me because im crippled well ya know what people I didn't ask for this disability if there was a cure I would take it but theres not so what am I branded useless by women because of it my heart is hurting and I just feel unwanted how about everyone post and make fun of me if that's what yall wanna do anyway

don't give it your all till you know they're worth it... and don't worry about what others on here say, just join in with them... we give everyone a hard time at one time or another, don't let it bother you... have fun, don't worry about your disability,
i didn't even know till you posted it... if you let people eat you, they will... don't let it show, just start eating back... and i can guarantee you, 75% of the people here feel just as unwanted as you do, but they come here to escape it, not dwell on it...

Very well written my friend I'm on board with this all the way!

What an outlook you have - cripple / not? Best mate to find / work on yourself first before giving anything away. Best of luck!

trust 'n belIEve, everything SUCKS!

CHEERS

I'll just get my violin.
You need to get a grip and pull yourself out of it.

we all have sadnesss and troubles no need to be hateful I would listen if you needed someone to listen funkyfranky and I wouldn't judge you for it

she gave you some good advice...she wasn't being hateful, she was letting you know that you can't use others as a crutch, you have to do it yourself...

Blah blah blah blah blah. Fifteenth verse same as the first. Heard this here and numerous other sites from you OP and maybe when you actually listen to the sound advice you are given and dump out your pity pot you might make some progress in having relationships. Not holding my breath.

Probably help if as an adult you actually went out and got into school, a job, or actually volunteered somewhere and quit blowing time and money on tatoo's, toys, and farting around on line when others have done everything but lead you by the nose in baby steps into adult life. Sorry your reputation proceeds you or follows you so maybe you are branded. But it is not your disability. Attitude yes.

By the way so frigging what you have a relatively mild disability? So what a few are ignorant about it. If you wear it like a cross you can't expect not to be crucified on it now and again. Might be because they got tired of your whining, and bellyaching, macho trash talk, and or trying for cyber sex, or a pity boink when you have managed to con someone into a social setting or even try to help you. Nobody get's to be a jerk or chronically whine on line because they didn't get to have things exactly their way. Life isn't Burger King.

And by the way your life could be a whole lot worse than it is. If anything you are lucky. I personally know the state of affairs for People with Disabilities in Kentucky and it has one of the Best well integrated into mainstream networks for socialization, education, access, and employment in the nation; maybe even the world. Kentuckians don't make excuses and they take care of, include, their own so no bashing where you are privileged to live.

Why because I know for a fact that Kentucky has the systems there to have active associations and services that make it simple to mainstream into society if and adult actually wants to. I know because I chartered them 25 + years ago and they are still going strong. Have conferences every year and in some cases every month. Thousands of Kentuckians with Disabilities recreate, date, marry, have children, own homes and businesses not to mention have lasting relationships and friendships on all levels if they chose to. Many with lot more severe impairments than you have. Should be a reality check for you but haven't see it yet. Kind of hard not to when you keep repeating the same old tired stuff.

So sad you may be but it is because you chose it. Or you chose low class people who party on your assets and kick you to the curb because you allow it. If you have a bulls-eye on your back it is because you put it there. So nobody is attacking you, picking on you, or labeling anything but the facts. Keep in mind you ask for advice. This is the last time I am wasting my breath on you though.
You want support quit sniveling and pull yourself up by the bootstraps you already have.

Hello my dear God has something special for u just trust in him. Love u a hardworking man. God bless