I had a heart brek 2 years ago n in luv but afraid to let her kw dat i luv her cause i see de face of my x date in dis new girl wat should i do? Please friends tell me

I don't get it, do you love the old girl or the new one? If it's the old one, let it go. If it's the new one, just buck up do it. All she can do is reject you, at least you'll know if she loves you back. Good luck!

If you see the face of your ex in your new girl, it is not the new girl that you love. You're still in love with your ex.

It sounds like you need to have some sort of closure and perhaps alone time to fully get over your last relationship. Maybe it's time for you to get to know yourself better without any expectations from a new girl.

Is it fair to the new girl that you think you're in love with her but can only see your ex in her eyes? Everyone wants to be loved and cared about but for themselves not someone else.

I wish you time to heal and love to come your way when you are ready.

Are you seeing this face based on not being over the ex in some places or are you afraid of the same thing happening again?

If you're afraid of the same thing happening again, remember that the current person and the last person who the heartbreak came from should be different people. If they are then you're freaking out over your past more than paying attention to what/who is right in front of you. The deal with the heartbreak came from the fact that you were with the person you were. It came from them and their inability to live up to understanding and honoring that. It did not come from you telling them how you feel for them.

I agree. Living in the past doesn't help anybody. Get over the ex before trying to make it work with anyone else, it's not fair to anybody otherwise. Just brings more heartbreak, trust me on this, I know.

yes, i'm in agreement too... i don't want to date till i get her out of my mind... and shes one of my best friends, too...

People tend to have a "type" they are attracted to.

Often, not always, men will have a preference and if you line up the various partners they pursue, and catch, you will see patterns.

Body type, hair color, speech patterns, even professions.

Sometimes you will see similarities in the appearances in mother's and spouses. While it has become out of fashion and taboo in most circles men used to marry siblings when the original spouse dies or abandons them or as acceptable second wives if the sibling lost her mate.

What is common is the number of widowers that will latch on to more or less a duplicate of a deceased wife. Maybe a younger version or one that looks like their daughter.

That you were abandoned rather than chose to leave your previous relationship and have not gotten tot he anger stage but are still greiving suggests that you have simply substituted rather than fallen even in like for the current girlfriend.

I recommend you do both of you a favor and end the new relationship because you will BOTH BE MISERABLE eventually. Reality has already set in but if you keep seeing her the denial will set in until she figures it out and abandons you also.

I think you need to heal from your previous broken heart first before you go to your next relationship.

Believe me is hard and painful thing to go true, but you can do it. Be strong and face the reality. I know is not easy but i guess is part of life ...good luck