yes, last I heard this is an "Adult" site so let;s recommend adult behavior...lol (or at least try)

Personally, I would probably cut ties, at least temporarily, and then, as Indignus stated, only let them back in my life if it was good for me, made me happy. I would not (per Tawt) start the same row again or permit that either.

In the sistuation you describe OP, you must ask yourself, "What is in it for me?" And remember to respect yourself. good luck

ha ha ha....
this is funny situation ,really.

Well...it seems that u r really a nice man to be with ( & to keep cheating on too ).
I really like such people,and if you don't mind,I term them as real innocent people.

Dude,as u asked,I'll definitely like to offer you my frank advice - Pl. don't get in touch with them about whom u really think they cheated u & even if u do that,pl.keep limits,so that u don't again feel as been cheated.

All the best!

BTW...r u a libra or lion?

It would sound like you need to find a whole new circle of people to hang out with. Girlfriends who cheat and play head games and a best friend that suggests such lowlife like behavior is a bad crowd? You really want to act like a thug? Get advice from a player? One that will only introduce you to the same low quality women.

Two wrongs don't make a right and wasting energy on revenge is adding cutting off your nose to spite your face?

Larson is right; you have had the opportunity (weather you were strong enough to chose it or not) to rise above what sounds like really immature and selfish people and make a higher caliber of friends.

It may take a while but the faster you disassociate yourself from such low character friends the faster you will meet nicer ones.

Personally I feel you have to be very careful who you friend on media because a lot of people see who you do and judge you for many important things by who your friends are. Posting and endorsement for a "cheater" sounds like saying "hey I liked whores and even though now I know she is a will be her friend anyway." How much sense does that make?

Airing all your dirty laundry on line just amplifies your mistakes and makes you look failed.

Good grief grandpa, do you think i will as low as my friends does? its not matter who you be friend with or what kind of problem do they have, but i do use my brain to think wisely... I respect the ladys and din't even lay my hand on them in my entire life, the first rule to be real man ...Do you know why i laugh and said it sound like my best friend? because thats what happen, its his own problem and he can think by himself for what he did & i let it be his way and i got my way....

Dude, all that Pacific is trying to say, is that having low-grade people for friends, can be bad for your reputation, as well as a bad influence. I can't count how many of my friends, have had to drop their drug-taking friends, or drop their no good waster friends. They would get ragey, if no-one wanted to party with them, which makes me think no wonder they couldn't keep anyone around them for long. Sometime's bad behaviour actually embarrasses the rest of the friends in the same friendship circle. And they decide enough is enough.

Which is why you'll end up a lonely old man one day, if you keep doing that? As your reputation will precede you, no matter where you go! Better to be yourself, rise above it and prove to them that you can do better WITHOUT them! The best way to get your own back on somebody, is to be successful in your life, after you two break up! I have exes that try to contact me, but they're an ex for a reason and that's the way it will stay. Anyway, i've got a peach of a girlfriend now and i'm not looking anymore. Got the woman I want totally

It is a relief to hear you would not model your friend's terrible attitude/suggestion. AND that you know NEVER laying your hands on a woman is acceptable.

I will stand by my advice to you that you REALLY NEED to get around better people. I realize that is often a very difficult thing to do.
Can be very difficult at your age when many of the friends you have known for years scatter and your pool to find friends gets very restricted. BUT it is the perfect time to let ones that have not been "cool" (how you have described several of them; especially a "best" friend) to drift away.

Which I can not encourage you strongly enough to do. You are at a cross roads, even critical time in your life, and a manipulative angry user female in your life can take you down like a rock. I have 40 years in social services and I can tell you that hundreds of cases have gone across my desk where young men thought they could stand alone on their own merits and not get sucked down the drain by association.

I would not bet a red hot nickle on your future if you don't wise up. I hope I am wrong. I would hate to hear you back in here in six-months crying in your hands that some rerun girlfriend ends up pregnant by you and now she is shacked up getting the hell knocked out of her by your once up on a time best friend.

What i mean by best friend is the one true person who always be there for me when other are not and the person who can share they good and bad times 2... He is really a good friend of my, i still remember when my collage time & laugh and get a good and bad day together also help each other, he from a rich family but he like to survive by himself, never relay on his parents wealth & i just from a middle class family and always become a lone wolf... Just now he changing allot, its time for me 2 save him like he save me 2 before...

ha ha ha....
this is funny situation ,really.

Well...it seems that u r really a nice man to be with ( & to keep cheating on too ).
I really like such people,and if you don't mind,I term them as real innocent people.

Dude,as u asked,I'll definitely like to offer you my frank advice - Pl. don't get in touch with them about whom u really think they cheated u & even if u do that,pl.keep limits,so that u don't again feel as been cheated.

All the best!

BTW...r u a libra or lion?

Sorry, just dont care about star stuff... a human can't know his future but he can try to built it, fall or not it depans on luck

Actually, you can't judge other people like all people does, because a good person can be a bad one and a bad person can be good...At least try to know them & try to know the true cost of they problem, i rema

Forget all that. if you feel that woman who hurt you is sincere about
coming back into your life, ask her why? But if you think she's playing games, by all means play treat her the same way she treated you..Its called KARMA, and if i was you,i rather be the one teaching her a lesson...

Actually, you can't judge other people like all people does, because a good person can be a bad one and a bad person can be good...At least try to know them & try to know the true cost of they problem, i remember my first ex girlfriend, she lived far away from me and she came from a family that have a social problems & always find her as unwanted child, she said at me that she always do stupid stuff to herself and she self admid at me that she alrady get de-flowerd when back at high scholl, i don't care... I love you the way you are & just forget the past, she just cant stand living with her perents and even ask me to run away with her but i advice her to think and dont do things so rush, i always be there when she needs.... The first time i be with her is like a dream and when i kiss her both my and her problem gone away....But everything not get by our plans, i have a big fight with her because she always jealous of me and worried i got sonebody else and always mad at me...Then i broke up with her, leave her alone and cry...Its a biggest mistake i ever done in my life

Dude, you got your way and i got my way, what you said is true and your heart is full of hate at your old ex but your way is wrong.Just think what if someone do things like that to your little sister or mother, do you get mad? Even they are the reasons you cry or mad, just be a man and dont fall back... but i respect all the advice all of you give, even its a bad one, but you know it clear that im gonna pick a good one...Lol (not im gonna write poems under the rainbow either) Thanks for your affort and peanut butter jeally time, way yeah way yeah...

Now you get it.I just gave you an example of what you "could" do. I would be straight up with them the 1st time they attempt to come back in my life..Ive moved on and they had a chance, but blew it..

Ok Dude. Your funeral. lol I know someone being groomed to be a patsy when I see it. Don't say you were never warned.

Now you get it.I just gave you an example of what you "could" do. I would be straight up with them the 1st time they attempt to come back in my life..Ive moved on and they had a chance, but blew it..

Cill up dude, not like the world gonna end..Bad man is for a bad girl and a good man is a good girl, just think wich kinda girl do you want?

Ok Dude. Your funeral. lol I know someone being groomed to be a patsy when I see it. Don't say you were never warned.

Lol dude, for your grave 2

**** "em".