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Topic: Friends First
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Thu 02/13/14 03:29 PM

What does friends first mean to you? If you start off as friends first, do you have a time limit before you start a relationship? Are there no dates until you become more than friends? How does friends first work for you?


no set rules...friends first means to me that there is a positive context where I have a friendly relationship/experience in a non romantic sense with the person...I knew him from somewhere and it was a positive experience...before becoming romantically involved.

doesn't have to be that we were best chums, or even that we have done a bunch of stuff together just that we are on a friendly basis.

my thought anyway

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Thu 02/13/14 03:58 PM




Mmm I am thinking that if one was in the mood
to attach, then selecting from one's group of
friends could be an ideal pool of prospects.


Uh huhsmokin

I would love being just your friend.
If'n I was much younger, I'd have to chase you and try to make you my woman.

But, life is wut it is.

Love you always, Ms. 2KM.flowers



((((((Willing))))):heart: smooched flowers
A smile spread across my face...You know why?
Because of the Str8 RESPECT you just spoke to me
with.:heart: smile2
Tells me what kind of man you are..but mostly,
It tells me what kind of woman, I am., because I know
Respect is earned.
It is an honour to be your friend.
:heart: smooched flowers


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Thu 02/13/14 07:47 PM
Friends with benefits first then relationship

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Thu 02/13/14 07:56 PM

Friends with benefits first then relationship


for those who are willing to try that it is certainly an individual choice. I don;t do FWB because I don't see them ever become anything more until 1 or both get sick of it or meet someone else. so I don't think it is a good idea to lower ones standards to accept a FWB if a relationship is the goal. there may be a few success stories out there, but I think they are the exception. so it's not for me - not in my best interests - but prolly fine as long as you know that it probably will NOT become a relationship & you are not wanting one

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Thu 02/13/14 08:07 PM
I try not to put any labels or boundaries on my heart. When you spend too much time in the "if" you miss out on "life".

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