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What does friends first mean to you? If you start off as friends first, do you have a time limit before you start a relationship? Are there no dates until you become more than friends? How does friends first work for you? no set rules...friends first means to me that there is a positive context where I have a friendly relationship/experience in a non romantic sense with the person...I knew him from somewhere and it was a positive experience...before becoming romantically involved. doesn't have to be that we were best chums, or even that we have done a bunch of stuff together just that we are on a friendly basis. my thought anyway |
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Mmm I am thinking that if one was in the mood to attach, then selecting from one's group of friends could be an ideal pool of prospects. Uh huh I would love being just your friend. If'n I was much younger, I'd have to chase you and try to make you my woman. But, life is wut it is. Love you always, Ms. 2KM. ((((((Willing))))) A smile spread across my face...You know why? Because of the Str8 RESPECT you just spoke to me with. Tells me what kind of man you are..but mostly, It tells me what kind of woman, I am., because I know Respect is earned. It is an honour to be your friend. |
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Friends with benefits first then relationship
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Friends with benefits first then relationship for those who are willing to try that it is certainly an individual choice. I don;t do FWB because I don't see them ever become anything more until 1 or both get sick of it or meet someone else. so I don't think it is a good idea to lower ones standards to accept a FWB if a relationship is the goal. there may be a few success stories out there, but I think they are the exception. so it's not for me - not in my best interests - but prolly fine as long as you know that it probably will NOT become a relationship & you are not wanting one |
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I try not to put any labels or boundaries on my heart. When you spend too much time in the "if" you miss out on "life".
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