Well i didn jus mean to say guys.. there all sorts of people.. gals r also included in this..

Preyaa is absolutely right.

yah..

Yeah

Hi manasi

Well Hello everyone.

I would also like to give my input on the subject here. I would go with it using my own experience. So here it is...

When I was 16 years old, I just met a girl who was just perfect for me. I took my time and proposed her 3 months later.

She accepted my proposal. Yes she was first girl ever for me and she accepted it. I don't know if I was lucky or I was just right. Anyways...I brought her to my home and introduced her to my family. My Mom has always been so supportive that she didn't raise a question on anything. Then it continued and she kept coming at my home few times a week. A year passed and things went to its worst as there was another guy trying to get himself a girl. I fought with all my capabilities. but still I was nearly about to be jailed. That guy influenced my girlfriend so much that she stopped talking with me. But after all the fight and wounds, That guy and me faced the girl face to face and asked what she wants.

She decided to be on my side. I won. We then spent 4 to 5 more years together.

That incident changed me so much that I decided to make myself and my girlfriend/my potential life partner even stronger that she can fight with world alone without me.

Last year, She just unwillingly married some other guy due to her family pressure.

With what we have learnt together in all this time, we were stronger to survived this separation. It was 6 years old love for me and her.

Now where the intimacy comes...? Just a month before she got engaged. Just for once in 6 years. and That's all.

If I would have bagged my girlfriend to not to marry that guy, She would not have had any respect for me till now. I made her take the decision for her life. I was there I remember. It was all tears. Believe me guys, it was hard on me too but I loved her once. We spent 6 awesome years together, For that sake I let her go. I had to as I was still a college student then and i didn't want her to struggle with me through the life. She deserved a good life...

Long story short...

What I have learnt the hard way is, Love is not a will to live together or be together always. Neither it is a will to get intimate. If you can't live without each other or you can't sleep without each other, That's called dependency. Love is actually what you learn being together, having experiences together, Seeing world together, raising kids together. It is how stronger you get together. It is how you make other stronger and make him/her take the right decision at the right time even it is harder to take.

Though she still miss me, She is happy now. She doesn't cry anymore. She talks to my friend from time to time and asks about me. I don't prefer to talk directly to her anymore as she is married and any mistake or irresponsible action from me could get her in trouble with her life. She would still come running if I call her. But No. Let it be.

This is "Love" friends. I know it is too long of a post but please read it as I have took my time and purposely typed it.

Oh and it may be the case that some of you don't believe it. If that's the case with anybody, I would say "This is world where weird and unusual things keep happening every once in a while..."

Thank you friends for taking your time. I am feeling even better now.

Cheers.

Hi Friend,
Ihv red ur entire post and yes I do belive that its a geniuin one. I can understand what u've went through, as I've been in similar situation.
All I can say is Life is unfair, get used to it.
And one more thing, I really appreciate your conduct in this matter.
Hope U find peace.

Thank you Manasi_13.

I have recovered from that blow. I still have some odd memories which are unforgettable. I appreciate your words. Thanks Again.

Thanx for sharing ur story here.. Words are less for how beautifully you have expressed your love.. Whatever happens happnes for a reason... But sometimes we just can't find one..

true love - is complete in itself , initimacy is never a requirement for it .

the thing is , if u r truly in love with somebody , then u just dont care for anything .. literally anything body , money , life .. anything .

so true lovy dovy dont care or think much abt intimate encounters n all , because they are trivial right , they just dont care ....

and wen u dont care , u do it right ... like anyother things which dont matter and we di it ...

ABT UR PREVIOUS POST : true person , whom u admire , look as a true frnd and want to go for extra affair , if he is really true , he will always do the best for you , till u r married , he will push u towards ur hubby , so that u two can get back in track again ... believe it or not that the best thing u can have ...

he will solve issues betwwen u two , bridge the gap , and scold u to become more tolerant and point out ur mistakes , not his(hubby), so that things between u two (u n ur mr. hubby) starts getting solved ..


after u r alone and separate , then he will never leave you .

have u notice , in my post : their is true frnd , a true genuine person , a mr, perfect ... and never a word came like extramartial affair ... because real persons dont do it ....... i know too much idealistic .. +-10% but thats should be the behaviour approximately for an ideal person

Amazing post..

Absolutely YES. Love doesn't demand physical attachments. It just needs true emotions, care, understanding unspoken words and support for the loved ones. But whether this kinda ppl exists? I dare to say RARELY.

Agreed..

Of course it is!!!

I am looking for even one, but to my regrets, I have not find a single. Not even a true and long lasting friend. It is sad.

Well. I believe it is as osho quotes it :

When love expresses through you it first expresses as the body. It becomes sex. If it expresses through the mind, which is higher, deeper, subtler, then it is called love. If it expresses through the spirit, it becomes prayer.
You see a flower in bloom have you ever considered that the blossoming of a flower is an act of passion, a sexual act? What is happening as the flower blossoms? The butterflies will sit on it and carry its pollen, its sperm, to another flower. A peacock dances in full glory a poet will sing songs to it, your saints will also be filled with joy at the sight of it. But aren��t they aware that the dance is an overt expression of passion, that it is primarily a sexual act? The peacock is dancing to seduce its beloved. The peacock is beckoning to his beloved, his spouse. The bird is singing, the peacock is dancing, the boy has become an adolescent, the girl has grown into a beautiful woman�� these are all expressions of sexual energy. These are all different manifestations of sexual energy. All life, all expression, all flowering is basically sex energy. And it is against this sex energy that religions and cultures are pouring poison into the minds of human beings. They are trying to engage human beings in a fight against it. They have entangled people in this battle against their own basic energy, so they have become wretched, pathetic, devoid of love, false, nobodies.
One has not to fight with sex, but to create a friendship with it, and elevate the stream of life to the heights.

Some things u don't find.. some things u get by urself.. But its destiny.. wen u get it..

From ur blog, i could make out u r not in favor of the topic. May be u havn't found some one like that.. or as ur blog expresses..u don't think like that.. anywz.. thx for writting..

yeah. Its destiny. Thanks. But Im very positive.

Being positive is the best thing..