Two people walk down the same road when you come to the cross roads you go down one road and the turns off down the other.now as for splitting your goods into two parts.well I aree to that as you were in love once and you did marry her.so just get on with your life.

Word Colin52!!! don't know who u r, but we're definitely on the same wave!

Thank you for your reply.

By the way, the story about my ex and I, all true, but I didn't take her to the bank. My bad attempt at humor. We were married for 7 years. Everything we accumulated in 7 years, we split 50/50. But man, that woman could make some dough! We divorced mostly cause of her career, she wasn't around. Thing is, we were both faithful. Then we tried it again, and that actually made it a mess. It was cool before that. Advise. Once its done, its done.

Now, we are both adults that are co-parenting, and working on our friendship.

One thing I learned through the big D. Is that everyone in this world is going to hurt you, everyone. You have to decide who's worth suffering for.

Bob Marley quote, and its true! Let Tuff Gong live on!!!!

The way I see it is i've built my own business up from stratch, without a womans help, bought and paid off my house without a womans help. So why should I jeapordise my sons inheritance by getting married, maybe splitting up and then the woman waltzes off with half of what she never helped to create? That's what gets me! All I have is for my kid and unborn grandkid one day, not for some moneygrabbing freeloader!!

as human's we have no right to hold anyone against being happy if she is not happy with u then let her go but b4 u do that remind her marriage is for better and for worst

thats y i love africa cos u dnt have to split ur inheritance after a nasty divorce. Except u did a court wedding lol