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Topic: Love is evil!
criss13 Joined Sat 02/01/14 Posts: 2	Sat 02/01/14 09:15 AM
Hi all

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 02/01/14 02:21 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met?

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 03:57 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met? yes :(

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 02/01/14 04:25 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met? yes :( omg, find another one...it's a big world...

Maria195 Joined Fri 10/04/13 Posts: 7361	Sat 02/01/14 04:30 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met? yes :( You never know...he might be a scam!

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 02/01/14 04:50 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met? yes :( Yeah, that's happened to me too when I've allowed myself to develop romantic feelings for someone on a dating site and nothing has come of it. I'm more guarded about that now and I may fantasise a litttle bit but I don't let myself get too carried away and I don't count on anything until it actually happens. It's a tricky one because I'm on here to meet women but the majority of them just want to chat indefinetely, if they bother to reply at all and it obviously suits me if they do start feeling romantically about me and act on those feelings. Without really wishing to belittle how you're feeling about this person, all that I can say is that you don't really know him and it is just a fantasy when you're chatting with someone on a dating site. When it's someone that you've been involved with in reality and it doesn't work out that's far more upsetting and it does put an internet flirtation into perspective. Last year I spent two months chatting with a girl on another site that totally led me on with a lot of promises about how we were going to meet and when she kept making excuses about why we couldn't just meet it did mmy head in. Then someone just contacted me on here and asked me if I wanted to meet up and when I did, any feelings that I had about that other one just went right out of the window.

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 05:24 PM
I definitely will. But never again on this site. It could be so cool if its in the real world :) like what dumbledore said " It is not good to dwell on dreams and forget to live. But i think ill hang out on this site because of the forums . :)

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 05:26 PM
When you say that he didn't reply to your messages do you mean that he's somebody on the internet that you haven't actually met? yes :( You never know...he might be a scam! the saddest thing is that everything he told me about himself is real coz we are facebook friends now, he even told me about his ex, which is also one of his facebook friends. But i will really try hard to forget him. :<

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 05:29 PM
You are right tawt. I will definitely grow out of it. ><

allie0408 Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 129	Sat 02/01/14 05:32 PM
your welcome. I hope it helps.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 02/01/14 05:46 PM
I definitely will. But never again on this site. It could be so cool if its in the real world :) like what dumbledore said " It is not good to dwell on dreams and forget to live. But i think ill hang out on this site because of the forums . :) Friends are good too

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 07:02 PM
I definitely will. But never again on this site. It could be so cool if its in the real world :) like what dumbledore said " It is not good to dwell on dreams and forget to live. But i think ill hang out on this site because of the forums . :) Friends are good too yup they surely are :)

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 02/01/14 07:15 PM
Love isn't evil; people are.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 02/01/14 07:16 PM
Love isn't evil; people are.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sat 02/01/14 07:18 PM
Do something strenuous. Focus on your object of upset. The ill feeling will work themselves out during your workout. It may not make sense but it is a human's way of relieving stress.

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 07:21 PM
Do something strenuous. Focus on your object of upset. The ill feeling will work themselves out during your workout. It may not make sense but it is a human's way of relieving stress. thanks

Freihti Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 103	Sat 02/01/14 07:22 PM
Love isn't evil; people are. lol :D :D

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 02/01/14 07:23 PM
Love isn't evil; people are. I knew there was something I liked about you.

Patrickb25 Joined Wed 01/29/14 Posts: 7	Sun 02/02/14 11:02 PM
I have found that the women I have loved that promise to never leave and to be with me forever.... those are the ones that have left and have apparently found better. love may exist , but for me its a lie ive been told over and over again

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/02/14 11:18 PM
I have found that the women I have loved that promise to never leave and to be with me forever.... those are the ones that have left and have apparently found better. love may exist , but for me its a lie ive been told over and over again Welcome to the real world. I had the same song and dance from the guys too.