Hi, how are you?

I've been on this site for 6 months and i've had no luck meeting that special lady. I've only spoken to two ladies, but unfortunately they tried to scam money from me, obviously they failed. I have written to ladies who fit my criteria but they just ignore me. I'm a genuine man who would just like to meet a nice genuine lady. What do you think?

I don't see anything wrong with your profile as far as I'm concerned.
I know how you feel, I've been trying to find someone for a long time too, on multiple sites, but haven't had any luck. The best advice I can offer is to not give up, because as is true with anything, you haven't truly lost until you quit. Keep trying, I'm sure things will work out for you.

Thanks.

From a woman's POV, you might want to try changing your profile pic or perhaps add a few more pics of you doing other things. Otherwise, I agree with ImSerious, don't give up~

Thanks ReiRose, i appreciate your honesty.

Your profile looks pretty good. You seem down to earth and genuine. Give it time; I am sure you will find someone that will appreciate you.

Thanks Navygirl

It is a nice profile. And you sound like a really nice guy which I wish more ladies would see.

It is all about selling what a lady 30-40 would buy. And you might have to put a little umpf in the presentation.

You HAVE to get better pictures.Pictures that say things the text doesn't.

You are a very good looking guy. Capitalize on your slender lines with a nice tucked in shirt roll the sleeves up where you see your lower arms and were fitted jeans; maybe some nice shoes. Unzip the jacket it looks sharp but just too uptight.

But you have to go for pictures with good light and engaging smile where you are up on your feet and no depressing shadows. Make your pictures tell a story about you that shows you can be boyfriend husband material.

At your age that is that you have your own place to live (can clean up after yourself), a vehicle (doesn't have to be new), and a job that is going to pay the bills. Gardeners can make good money but most people compute that as barely making ends meet. You don't want to look like something that would attract a gold digger but just stable and a good risk for someone who will want a family.

Women the age frame you are suggesting want those things more often than not. It is a game of odds. All the blather about romance and one in a million encounter is balogne. You have to get seen, often, and make and impression.

65 year old woman who wants to meet a 60 to 70 year man.
Or is everyone just not wanting to day or have a relationship?
Curious since I have been on this site for over a year now...

If you've been alive almost 40 years and haven't met someone you can love its a little unrealistic to be upset about not meeting someone in 6 months online. Patients grasshopper, greatness is worth waiting for.