Topic: What our your thoughts or opinions about long distance relat
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Thu 02/06/14 04:56 AM
What!!surprised ...Another thread on the pros and cons of long distance relationships?....Some work, some don't....just like the one you had with the guy/gal next door....

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 02/06/14 08:36 AM
Well I wouldn't try to deter anyone from it, as they're old enough to make their own choices. As long as you have enough money, time, and commitment, it can go places. I've just never been in one.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/06/14 10:06 AM
The one who is seeking a long-distance relationship should be the one who moves to where the other person is.

Husker5347's photo
Thu 02/06/14 10:26 AM
Oh believe me it can work . . . . . Until you move in together. Then maybe not. Been there, done that. But I know some do survive. And if you don't try, you will always wonder "what if".

dcastelmissy's photo
Thu 02/06/14 10:26 AM

The one who is seeking a long-distance relationship should be the one who moves to where the other person is.


What if neither of you were seeking it and it just happened, then what? Sometimes what we were looking for just sort of falls in your lap without it having been what you originally sought. So neither was looking for a LDR but both wanted it when it appeared...then I guess both move "mid-way" maybe? laugh

hellsboy's photo
Thu 02/06/14 10:28 AM
Love is love... distance is just a flight to that place. .. love shud b dere...

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/06/14 12:19 PM

Love is love... distance is just a flight to that place. .. love shud b dere...


Then the one who wants the LDR should be the one who does the flying.

Husker5347's photo
Sat 02/22/14 07:26 AM
Dcastel.. That is exactly what happened to me. I always said no LDR . just started messaging and it evolved. Unfortunately didn't work out after I moved but I ended up in Texas and love it here.

DanielDFrost's photo
Sat 02/22/14 08:08 AM
If one member of a LDR partnership relocates and that person hates the area, that person will most likely come to resent the other party. IMHO.

The chances of a LDR working is very small.


prashant01's photo
Sat 02/22/14 08:12 AM

Can long distance relationship work and if so, what does it take to make it work ?


ya...if words touches

schoolbusdriver's photo
Sun 02/23/14 06:11 AM
If u r starting a long distance relationship, what would be the time limit before u meet in person?

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Sun 02/23/14 06:46 AM

Can long distance relationship work and if so, what does it take to make it work ?


Yes, they can work, but they ARE NOT for the faint of heart....smokin

prashant01's photo
Sun 02/23/14 06:52 AM


Can long distance relationship work and if so, what does it take to make it work ?


Yes, they can work, but they ARE NOT for the faint of heart....smokin


Very true.

Good morning beautiful ladyflowerforyou

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Sun 02/23/14 06:55 AM



Can long distance relationship work and if so, what does it take to make it work ?


Yes, they can work, but they ARE NOT for the faint of heart....smokin


Very true.

Good morning beautiful ladyflowerforyou


Good morning ((((Prashant))))flowers

Candiapples's photo
Sun 02/23/14 11:15 AM
I have tried in the past and never worked for me but then again I don't think there was enough interest to keep it going. I got bored of it. Takes a lot of trust, commitment and interest to make it work.

no1phD's photo
Sun 02/23/14 11:16 AM
all that constant back and forth thing.. the energy.. it could be spent on someone local.. me local. local Cocoa Puffs..laugh

Candiapples's photo
Sun 02/23/14 11:24 AM
Ever try using Tango no1phD?
I have no problems finding locals using it

no1phD's photo
Sun 02/23/14 11:26 AM
no but I have tried orangtang.. somehow I don't think its the same though.. big hug for you..:wink:

Candiapples's photo
Sun 02/23/14 11:34 AM
Edited by Candiapples on Sun 02/23/14 11:34 AM

no but I have tried orangtang.. somehow I don't think its the same though.. big hug for you..:wink:

And flowers for you love

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Sun 02/23/14 06:29 PM
A relationship is a relationship, no matter the distance. Because it's not the distance that should matter, it's the commitment and effort you put in to it. If you love someone, nothing should stand in your way. That's why the make planes, trains, and automobiles...happy