This is getting ridiculous now. It's been at least twenty four hours since a woman has messaged me on here. I decided to stay in this weekend as well and I could have been out at the pub. They can't all be reading my forum posts and thinking that I'm an arsehole. I had high hopes that this dry spell with the women not talking to me was going to be at an end at last by Sunday at least and I don't know how much more of this rejection I can take. If I didn't have my dog here for company I think that I would probably go completely nuts. That's her in the pictures on my profile. Her name is Keira and she's housetrained and won't pee on your carpet or bite your children if you're reading this and thinking, "Ooh,, he sounds like a cool guy and he's kind of sexy".

Nothing like whining about it to become attractive to the opposite sex.

Yeah, I get most of my dates that way. It's all about showing women that I have a sensitive side and that I'm not too picky.

I agree

Yay, I've got a message!

Nah, just someone adding me as a favorite. Feeling like a guy that went for a dump and only farted.

that's a bit to much information

Alright, I won't put that on my profile then.

Hilarious thread.

Ha ha, loud and proud Tawt? Gotta toot to get it oot mate?

At last. One has replied to me. She says that all that she requests is that people looking for money and "the perverted" leave her alone. I told her that I don't want money and didn't say anything perverted. Wish me luck folks. I think that I've got a live one here.

And I see it is serving you so well.

yikes not picky wonder if you tell that to a women what she will say

Well, now that you come to mention it, when I met my last girlfriend she said something about how guys will shag anybody. She was a pretty young girl but suffered from low self esteem. Told me that she wasn't happy with her breasts. I mean, you know women. It doesn't matter if you can't tell that one's bigger than the other because they say that they can. She wanted to get a boob job she said. I don't think that she was trying to scam me but she said that she wanted to go up to a G and she couldn't aford to pay for an operation like that.

But what I said to her was that I wouldn't want to have sex with someone that I didn't find attractive. I think that she bought that anyway and I managed to force myself.

So is it okay to be lonely and not sad? Im trying to keep upbeat and look for the best in this situation. Has been good for soul searching. I needed to find myself and figure out what i want. Sometimes on this sight it can make you feel more lonely because people look at you like a sex object and i know i am more than that. Someday someone will see me, all of me, and accept, till that time cheers and smile. Sad is so sad. Lol

I know what you mean. I get so fed up with women seeing me as a sex object.

As far as lonelyness goes, it's a form of boredom I think. Crowds tend to make me feel lonely and other people can be so dull and tedious, don't you think? A lot of the time I'm happy enough with my own company. Well, I've got my dog for company I suppose. Did I mention that she's housetrained and she doesn't bite? Single mums are welcome and she also loves other dogs, if you have one; although she isn't actually neutered and she doesn't like cats.

After my old dog was gone, this place felt empty and I really missed him. Had him for ten years and he was my constant companion. I got him when I moved into this flat and I had left my old life and all of the people that I used to know behind. Wanted to have a fresh start but I didn't know anyone in this part of the town. It took quite a long time for me to feel that this place is home. After a few years I happened to meet a woman that was a neighbor and that was really convenient. After I broke up with her I could still feel her presence. She moved away from here last year though. We had just made friends again and now she's gone. Well, we still keep in touch but it's not the same.

I remember that first day when she came round again for a chat. We talked about my old dog and she said how lovely Keira is and how lucky I am to have her. It's funny how other people can make you apreciate what you have. That's one of the things that I like about having a girlfriend, when I've got one. The everyday things that you can feel bored with can seem so much better. There's a park near here and last summer I met another girl and she asked me if I wanted to go for a walk because she knew that I've got a dog. We went for a walk round the park and I got a hotdog from the burger van and she had a can of coke. After she went out of my life, going into the park and getting a hotdog made me think about her and about that day in the summer. She was my summer girl.

I do feel at home here now, even if I'm lonely again. I've got my little flat and I've got Keira. Life goes on. I had a pretty lonely Christmas but it's usually like that and it's become like a tradition for me to be alone at Christmas. It's funny how remembering times when you felt sad and lonely can make you feel happy. Nostalgia does tend to do that. Happy days.

I still remember my old dog sometimes but that doesn't depress me anymore, even though that last day with him was one of the saddest of my life. I'm not missing that girl so much now either. I remember her and still think about her but it doesn't really feel like she's coming back. I used to worry quite a lot about ending up as a lonely old man and sometimes I feel like a lonely old man but I've got my memories. I talk about old times with my ex sometimes. She's proved to be a genuine friend and even though we're not together anymore, I know that we will always be friends. That was what that girl said to me on that day in the summer. She said that whatever else happens, she knew that we would always be friends. She's gone though and doesn't seem to want to know me anymore.

I guess the moal of the story is we are all in charge of our own destiny. You are def not alone with having kiera. You prob have the best girl you ever will. Lol. I have two dogs and cats and everyday they make me laugh and smile. Sometimes i have to take a step back and look at what i do have instead of what i dont. It all works if we make it work. I have someone in my heart but it seems no matter what we try its not working for either of us. Only time tells sometimes. Smile and hold kiera.close and maybe something will come along and slap you in the face! Never know???????