I am a single 30 year old black guy with no kids that totally just caught my stride in this whole dating game. I was in a relationship for the longest and was so broken I completely lost my sense of worth. It literally took one day at an apartment pool to remind me of how much I was missing out on life by feeling sorry for myself. I'm freaking awesome! What was I thinking?? lol If anybody wants to get down, let me know. I was most unprepared to 'enjoy being single', now I am all about it. If you are looking for a good time, get at me. Have fun out there enjoying your lives and being happy. You only got one life to live :-) And you never know you might just find that special someone while you're out there enjoying yourself. They often say great things happen to you when you least expect it.