Looking to adopt my unborn child, people's thoughts please?

Wholly your decision.

Best of luck.

Yer that's true thanks it's just hard that's all

It is often not made easier by too much outside interference.

I will keep that in mind, but it's not much easier made with family also :(

For what reason, if you don't mind me asking? That's an awful big decision to make and one you might regret later on down the line, no matter how adamant you feel about it just now? I hope it works out for you and ends up being the best decision for everybody all round? I just hope that you've really thought this through fully, as it could come back to haunt you one day, when it's too late!

I second the motion :) .. Another thing, Fight for what you've done.. Its not mistake, its destined for u to happen :).. Who knows, that child will be ur greatest treasure ..

There's are many pros and cons to this, and I'm just trying to get my head around what I think would be right for this child, don't get me wrong I'd love to have this child and I'd 100% like it be in his/her life but it just seems too much to do alone

Doing it alone wouldnt be a hindrance if u trully love this child.. Yes, its hard indeed, but giving & entrusting that child to another person would be a very bad decision .. & the sooner ur child grows up, the harder the feeling of the decision youve made..

God bless you for being a nice caring person.I think its a great idea all children need love and a person like you to teach them about life. My step sister adopted a child and she said it was the best thing she ever did, her and her child are so happy. The paper work and restrictions seem a lot at first but you just keep chopping away and soon you rescue a life and return get yours rescued at the same time. My best wishes go out to you!!!

I might just be a wee bit biased, as I had 2 sons. One died as he was born premature, when I was 18 and my other son is 22 now, grown up and left home. I raised him on my own for 14 years and wouldn't swap those years for anything, as they made me a much better person all round watching my son grow up and becoming the man he is today. I don't know your reasons, as everyone is different and it couldn't have been easy for you to come to this decision, not unless you were a heartless person, which I think you're not. My mates sister did this though years ago, then found out she couldn't have kids any more and it nearly destroyed her in the end. That's why I said I hope you've really thought it through and covered it from all angles? I wish you all the best, ok?

It's a give and take situation as I only want what is best for this child
And if that means giving him or her up too a loving couple/person that can give just as much love and support for this child as I would then is be happy for the babies sake,

Are you kidding? Are you Okay?

I know it's not the child's fault by all means and I'm not 100% about doing this but I do feel it's a better decision for the child's sake more then myself , I never ever planned on having children, and all I want is the best for this child an if I can't do that ok sure there are couples out there that are wanting to adopt and can't and are more then willing to love and care for this baby just as much as I would love too

There can never be a child happier with the people who act as his/her parents than to be with his/her real mother/father alone.. It might be hard for the child to grow up without a father but still, there are mothers out there who's willing to do what fathers should do.. I know u can do it :) .. God is with u always..
& I dont think u couldnt find another person to love u as well as ur child ..

Thank you for your kind words kizas it really means a lot Nd also to everyone else that has posted on this topic is a very hard decisions and all areas will be taken into consideration once again thanks you and god bless xx

Adoption is a wonderful resource AND a blessing for childless couples.
You've said you want to do whatever is best for the child... NO ONE can tell you how to handle such a delicate choice.
I can tell you this.. DO what YOU feel in your heart! Don't let ANYONE shame you into keeping a baby you feel will struggle with you... on the other hand, A baby's first need is to be in its mother's arms at birth.

You're very welcome & its my pleasure :) ..
I just hope that after u made a decision about this, you'd be happy :) .. May God bless u always :)..

Not just happy, but COMPLETE :)

Thank you and that reply pretty much sums exactly how I feel like I've said before I would
Love to
Keep and bring up this child but I know he/she will have or be given a better one with someone else, although I would definitely try and keep in contact