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Many things we do are certainly a choice however "everything" in life is definitely NOT a choice! No damn wonder there are so many misinformed people and haters out there in this world.
You sir, obviously have no conception or understanding of what being gay, bi, transgendered or even str8 and everything in-between, really is if you believe it's a choice. None of us had any say in how many X and Y chromosomes we were dealt with at birth. being gay is NOT a life choice as some misinformed people would like to believe, you are either born that way or you're not. Nobody in their right mind would chose to be gay and persecuted most of their life. Self acceptance is the 1st. step in leading a full and fulfilling life. everything is a choice...seems like some are confused as to what gay means... it doesn't mean liking the same sex, it means have sex with the same sex... thats a choice... well, thats your opinion... since when is sex something we "have" to do?... you people are acting you would die without sex, like there is no choice about sex.. get effin real.. |
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well said!
being gay is NOT a life choice as some misinformed people would like to believe, you are either born that way or you're not. Nobody in their right mind would chose to be gay and persecuted most of their life. Self acceptance is the 1st. step in leading a full and fulfilling life. everything is a choice...seems like some are confused as to what gay means... it doesn't mean liking the same sex, it means have sex with the same sex... thats a choice... So, being straight isn't about liking the opposite sex? It's just about sex with the opposite sex? I guess with that logic, you believe you chose to be straight? it's about who you have sex with, either way... loving someone doesn't make you gay or straight, it's the sex that does... |
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I'm not here to get into any altercation, nor am I here to change anyone's mind you can choose to believe exactly what you want to, who am I to give a S**t :)
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being gay is NOT a life choice as some misinformed people would like to believe, you are either born that way or you're not. Nobody in their right mind would chose to be gay and persecuted most of their life. Self acceptance is the 1st. step in leading a full and fulfilling life. everything is a choice...seems like some are confused as to what gay means... it doesn't mean liking the same sex, it means have sex with the same sex... thats a choice... So, being straight isn't about liking the opposite sex? It's just about sex with the opposite sex? I guess with that logic, you believe you chose to be straight? it's about who you have sex with, either way... loving someone doesn't make you gay or straight, it's the sex that does... Well, no, because there's so much more than just sex. I am attracted to men. I always have been. I knew that before I had sex. I never chose to be attracted to men, so I never chose to be straight. I just was. |
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still a choice on who you have sex with, bottom line... put it this way, there are some guys i can say are good looking, and even in some way attracted to... but i would never choose to have sex with them... how is that not a choice? because i can control myself? i don't see it as an attraction, i see it controlling my mind as to where it makes the decisions, not my dick making the decisions... Yes, having sex with someone is a choice. I don't know about you, though, but I can choose who I have sex with, not who I am attracted to. |
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still a choice on who you have sex with, bottom line... put it this way, there are some guys i can say are good looking, and even in some way attracted to... but i would never choose to have sex with them... how is that not a choice? because i can control myself? i don't see it as an attraction, i see it controlling my mind as to where it makes the decisions, not my dick making the decisions... Yes, having sex with someone is a choice. I don't know about you, though, but I can choose who I have sex with, not who I am attracted to. it's not about who your attracted to, it's about who we have sex with... being attracted to someone doesn't make you gay or not... it's the sex that make you gay or not... |
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I agree
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.. being gay.. I believe it's more of a chemical reaction.. what you find our don't find attractive.. like liking a certain flavor of ice cream.. you either like . vanilla are you don't... that's all I'm going to say about this...phD..
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I agree in my case I like both favors!
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I prefer the term same sex attracted and it's not a life style choice.
Let's not be too simplistic around the concept. |
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