Good morning,

just been told that and it actually hurt a little.
I don't think I am but since I am actively trying to find my special someone for the last 6 months now I wonder, what it is about me, that put guys off.

Oh, and my profile is long and descriptive for a reason.

Thank you kindly.

No worries your profile is great and your a very lovely woman. Good luck in your search.

Thank you, much appreciated.

I just read your post in the forum and just looked at your profile. I must say it was a bit long but thats a good thing for me anyway. It shows more of who you are. It is well written and you have a lot going for you. I can't see why your still here to be honest and not snapped up. Its a shame you live so far from me lol, would have been nice to go for a coffee. Good luck in your quest for love, seems like we are both searching for the same thing.

Now,who ever said you are"below average" just wanted to put your confidence down-shoot on sight!!!

I think you are quite attractive-well,I say it as it is...the Greek and JackT are right on!

Goodluck in your search!

hi ya ur just avg lady okay

I agree! At least you can move on with your head held high and find that person you are looking for. No time for losers! I loved your profile! I think your a beautiful woman! You won't be on here much longer!

Aww, many thanks for all your kind words.

I must be doing something wrong nevertheless as I haven't been snatched up besides trying for the last few months. *sighs* Nevermind.

Wish you all the best of luck and thanks for your encouragements.

If that's the opinion of some, then those should just ignore me. I ignore the ones I don't fancy...

Why the hell on earth would you be worried about what someone told you and post such a question on the net. My advice to you is next time someone says you're average or something on those lines, tell them to have a better look at themselves in a mirror and jog on. Jeez can't believe how many ****s think they are so damn hot, pretty and so on. At the end of the day, no one is perfect and last piece of advice, be confident in yourself and never try to be someone you're not. Also look carefully in your surroundings, maybe the one you're looking for is really close to you, and at the end of the day, we're all special to someone.

I don't see anything wrong with your profile at all and you are very pretty. What we all don't know however is how you interact and get along with the men you have met.

The guy who said you were below average wanted to hurt you for some reason. Might be a good idea to ask the next guy who loses unterest in you why he has.. to get some insight into what you are doing wrong.

I don't know about that candi. If he lost interest he should be a man and say it. Not be hateful an hurtful. I've been there recently. I also realize his hateful comments had nothing to do with me.

Cheers. Sorry, had a weak moment (it was way too early to think properly *lol*).

We should all be able to be ourselves and love ourselves! I'm going to. Whoever don't like it can lump it!

Thank you.

I try to be flirty, playful, interested, I even chat less than I would with a friend and let them talk.

And I did ask the guys who asked first (!) for a 2nd date and then pulled out the very last minute. I've never got an answer. And no, I am not pestering them in between, only one message, saying thank you for a nice evening (after the first date) and then answer if answers are required.

It gets to me, had so many first dates in the last half year, it's a bit painful and tiresome now...

I'm not necessarily talking about the guy who said she was below average..hes a douch and we are only hearing one side.

I'm saying..ask the men who lose interest..why they are?

Oh sorry! I misunderstood!!!

Did they expect you to put out?
And did you?

NP carebear