Word of advice is, find out what another person is looking for, if anything and what they may or may not even want from you. I say this so as not to make a complete fool of youself by being over suggestive to the wrong person who may be insulted by whatever you may have insinuated of them. Granted there are definately some very fast 'people' on this site who will hook up with everyone and anyone...their business and to each their own, but there are also a few very decent people looking mainly for friendship maybe even leading to...well whereever it may go. You might be interested, genuinely in another member and lose their attention just by saying the wrong 'line'. Just FYI guys and gals......Rhonda Can anyone relate to this topic from the giving or recieving end? Let me hear youe experiences...

I had a bluebox profile tell me I was beautiful and proposed marriage....is that what you mean?

I mean, yeah, I am all for being upfront and honest...but the word Visa came to mind...

And welcome to the site Rhonda...this probably would have gotten more notice, in General Discussion...it's usually an introduction area..not that I care, I would talk to anyone, anywhere...

I agree with Jess

Welcome to JSH Rhonda

Proposed marriage!! lol yeah, u might want to steer clear of the desperate ones!! I didn't even notice I was in the NEW MEMBERS forum..dummy me! I am definately not a new member but was reading in that discussion and probably just went for what I was wanting to discuss from there..oh well!! I had to just be totally honest with a man myself and drop the rejection line on him. What are some people thinking anyway!! Good luck...Rhonda