being single is a happy thing or a sad thing?

Some are happy, some are sad..

It really depends on the person, im happy either way .

? Is What do you want to make it.

Hi baby

WTF fact: The longer you are single, the more you think that something's wrong with you.

Is it too much to say that I'm new at being alone. So...what do you do? Curious.

for some being single is a choice. I would not likely give up being single any time soon now that I have been single long enough to look back reflect and compare.

what do I do? whatever I want with my free time and my money....

I think the more you are involved in the community the less being single makes you feel alone. Being single can be a gift. Look at all the things you could not do if you were not single.

No.no.no. you did not shut it down. Opened it up a little. Kinda like the over seas opinion. Safe to say this is the same all over the world?

Im doing exactly what sweetgirl says, and reflecting, growing , learning, being free , I feel more alive now than I ever did , always thought I needed someone to fill the void , I was wrong , I needed me , now im strong I love life content with just having friends if love comes good if not still good :)

exactly, and if you do partner up at some point you will come into the relationship as a strong person rather than one who is overly needy.

I think I am beginning to understand what you are saying. But how long does it take? How long did it take you? To be emotional independent?

No time limit on this,dont take this the wrong way but most people want someone who can walk beside them not behind or in front , we dont want to be your mother, father, counsler thats not dating material , take time know you, learn from bad relationships, I always say bad relationships prep you for good ones lots to learn, a special thanks to all the jerks ive had youve made me a better person.

To answer your ? 2 years

are u talking to me? you can click the quote rather than the reply button to address a comment to a specific person.

IDK that I will ever be emotionally independent. maybe you could define what you mean by that so I can best respond?

I am comfortable being on my own, and that took a few years. I was never self critical or down on myself for the "stage" I was in. We all grow and evolve as times moves on. Sometimes I would like to have a partner. I suppose it is not totally out of the question. I actually do not think much about it, if truth be told. :)

enjoy yourself wherever you are

No choice really. So just quit is what you are saying? Just walk away again from being. No. Trying to be happy?

Try to be happy , dont ever give up though a better future awaits you .SMILE.

Sorry for posting on someone else's post. Just new.