Topic: Feedback appreciated.
Suzyq2meetu's photo
Thu 01/02/14 11:02 PM
I am new to this site and am interested in feedback on my profile... Impressions?

vanaheim's photo
Thu 01/02/14 11:41 PM
Edited by vanaheim on Thu 01/02/14 11:52 PM
Okay, it's a competent, articulate profile crossing all the t's and dotting all the i's. The photos are terrific, you've a gorgeously expressive smile. The time taken to actually fill in a contemplative list of interests absolutely helps give an impression of what it might be like meeting you, those swirling states of being just at the surface. It's great.
The description is in plain conversation and suggests a lady whom is comfortable in her own skin and perfectly happy to express herself accurately and casually. It gives an impression of how you speak and the kind of realms you seek when problem solving. Again terrific.

That said objectively, my subjective impression is that you're still a little into yourself but not as much as many and remain interesting. One would be steeled prior to messaging with this in mind.



edit, I guess I should mention I'm ridiculously picky if I want a relationship to work, so my 'subjective' is seriously subjective.

indignus's photo
Fri 01/03/14 09:49 AM
Hey Suzy,

I don't think you need to change a thing, your profile looks very well put together. GL

metalwing's photo
Fri 01/03/14 10:00 AM
Excellent in all ways. However, all your photos are good but show you in a cold environment. You have a good body. Show something close fitting.

The one word on your profile that might scare many off is "separated". There is obviously a story there to tell. Tell what you can without excessive detail.

Welcome to Mingle2. Get into the forums and let people get to know you.

Suzyq2meetu's photo
Fri 01/03/14 10:05 PM
Edited by Suzyq2meetu on Fri 01/03/14 10:06 PM
Thank you to all of you that took time to reply. I do appreciate the feedback. Writing a profile is tricky to accurately describe and give people a sense of yourself, to get your point across, and to convey who you hope to find in just a few words. I am glad to hear I've done a reasonable job of it. Thank you and good luck.

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 01/03/14 10:25 PM
Good lead shot and text. The follow up photos could be better. Should get you some interest. Think "separated" will not be real popular since many here are single one way or another in the forums but don't know about the match lists. Many will block you until you are single again.

Suzyq2meetu's photo
Fri 01/03/14 11:15 PM
Thanks for your input. I can't put single when I am legally still married can I? I have explained it in my profile now... Can one be too honest?

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 01/03/14 11:25 PM

Thanks for your input. I can't put single when I am legally still married can I? I have explained it in my profile now... Can one be too honest?


Too honest? Well if you want to publicly post what you are doing is to get over on the insurer and risk the hassles that go with that including your's, your not quiet single husband, and kids insurance being cancelled it is your choice. Employers that often subsidize the premiums tend to take a dim view of it and could terminate him?