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Topic: Why do younger guys like older women?
dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sat 01/04/14 07:27 PM
Yeah, I get you! So I am sure you understand my premise.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 01/04/14 07:32 PM
I was joking. I haven't lived with my wife for a few years. I was with her during her cancer until she was cancer free. She has other complications that won't allow her to work. She lives with the money her 17 year old daughter makes and the 160.00 a month child support from her ex. I mail her money when I have extra. I know,if the roles were reversed,she'd do the same for me.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/04/14 07:33 PM
Yeah, I get you! So I am sure you understand my premise. Yes I do. Hope you are having a great evening.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sat 01/04/14 07:39 PM
I was joking. I haven't lived with my wife for a few years. I was with her during her cancer until she was cancer free. She has other complications that won't allow her to work. She lives with the money her 17 year old daughter makes and the 160.00 a month child support from her ex. I mail her money when I have extra. I know,if the roles were reversed,she'd do the same for me. And you found it necessary to joke about someone's financial situation? Why is that? You of all people should understand comments made on this subject, so why was it a matter of humor to you? If my man had a similar situation, I would be there to totally support! If I had the money, I would share it with him, no matter what! What's mine is his, for better or worse, richer or poorer, no boundaries, and has nothing to do with whether the object of my affections is younger or older than me. It would stand despite age or anything else. But that's just me! It is who I am! JMHO

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sat 01/04/14 07:41 PM
I was joking. I haven't lived with my wife for a few years. I was with her during her cancer until she was cancer free. She has other complications that won't allow her to work. She lives with the money her 17 year old daughter makes and the 160.00 a month child support from her ex. I mail her money when I have extra. I know,if the roles were reversed,she'd do the same for me. Thank you NavyGirl! I am having a good evening, and just for the record, I have a great respect for you!

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 01/04/14 09:21 PM
Thanks. I'm just doing what I believe is the honorable thing. Her daughter is a senior and pregnant. She plans on moving in with her boyfriend after graduation. When that happens, the wife will lose her Medicaid. She will have to move back down to the border. The only Dr. I could afford for her are the ones in Mexico. I am grateful I have VA Medical for myself. I also, for the years we've been separated, pay her auto insurance and phone. When I joined this site, my divorce papers were filed and had a court date.Found out she had cancer and cancelled the divorce. Being alone sucks. Being honorable makes it bearable.

Learns2Rock Joined Sun 12/29/13 Posts: 54	Sun 01/05/14 01:11 AM
I've had a lot of young guys message me, wanting older women. I told them this would be very awkward for me. I can be friend and that's it. I would find it very awkward being with younger person. I am attracted to older guys. Some people think age is just a number. If this is their preference I'm sure it is for them. No hard feeling younger guys. just stating my opinion. Homer Simpson forgive me for plagiarizing you when I say "Doh!" They like them for the same reason men that are their peers do. 1. They can talk about more than shopping and their hair. 2. They've been through the "Barbie Stage", and are less likely to freak out if the waitress at Denny's has bigger t!ts than she does. 3. They're more ... skilled in intimacy, (bonus points for more appreciative.) 4. They're generally as good out of bed as they are in. I could go on, but you probably get the point by now..

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 01/05/14 10:19 PM
I was joking. I haven't lived with my wife for a few years. I was with her during her cancer until she was cancer free. She has other complications that won't allow her to work. She lives with the money her 17 year old daughter makes and the 160.00 a month child support from her ex. I mail her money when I have extra. I know,if the roles were reversed,she'd do the same for me. Thank you NavyGirl! I am having a good evening, and just for the record, I have a great respect for you! Aww thank you for the kind compliment.

Unknow Joined Thu 11/28/13 Posts: 3	Tue 01/07/14 10:03 AM
its simple, an older woman is like a cool day but a young lady is like a very very cold day or a very very hot day. She dosn't yet know what she wants.

Unknow Joined Thu 11/28/13 Posts: 3	Tue 01/07/14 10:11 AM
The sex part is not true, i have been there, its becoz an older woman has reach a stage where she gets the reality about life. A younger woman is still living in the dream world where she thinks life is like 1234..........

polishboy216 Joined Sun 09/08/13 Posts: 64	Tue 01/07/14 10:27 AM
Blah, blah, blah,......blah blah.... Good luck

mikesolo2 Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 2	Tue 01/07/14 08:57 PM
u make me so hard right now

seandretheplumber Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 2	Thu 01/09/14 06:58 PM
amen that's the there

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Thu 01/09/14 07:01 PM
I have no idea

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 01/09/14 07:05 PM
Could be, the dudes looking for much older women have mom sex fantasies.

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Thu 01/09/14 07:09 PM
Or still need to be looked after

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Thu 01/09/14 07:14 PM
Is it possible that they are just interested in the woman herself and are looking past her age?

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Thu 01/09/14 07:16 PM
This topic has been done to death, but I dated a woman who is 52 & I'm 43. I wasn't "looking" for an older woman, it just happened. I've also dated women my own age & slightly younger. age is only a number, and the heart doesn't see that..

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Thu 01/09/14 07:18 PM
I no longer pursue older women. With all the new security measures at nursing and retirement homes, it's just not feasible.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Thu 01/09/14 07:18 PM
Or maybe they are not interested in unintelligent, high maintenance, and selfish younger women who are into a lot of melodrama; someone who is done with the materialism and knows how to deal with real relationships, for better or worse. It's a thought!