hey everyone!! so im new to this whole internet dating thing and i really dont know where to start. any advise?

Although what the lady from mingle 2 is saying maybe true & sometimes helpful as far as apperance goes I do think people shouldn't be to judge mental to a certain extent.Example,ok fair enough if you cant see a photo or it's blury, then yes that's understandable,but choosing not to communicate with someone because there wearing glasses or a hat.Why should that matter really as long as you can see there face.Well i'm actually wearing sun glasses in my profile but I am smiling.Maybe people are turned off from that.if that's the case then so be it.It's kind of like judging a Muslim lady,and asking her to not wear a berka.The only thing a hat is doing is covering your hair.why should it matter what colour,or length your hair is.All i'm saying is we never truly know the person till we spend time with them anyway and to choose not chat with someone because there wearing sunglasses or a hat,is ridiculous.Who know's that person you've judge over something so minute could if given the chance turn out to be the most exciting,loveable and loyal person you've ever met.Just my opinion.Also lady's if you believe I should loose the glasses,i will cause it's no big deal to me.I'd appropriate your feedback.