seems we cant speak our opinion with posting least not how we feel about
someones faults or concern's so whats let is just acting like we all get
along and comment nicely without cussing or raising hell.I like to
comunicate about things that I'm feeling but some can't handle they take
this as being rude lmfao.If i was rude then I had every right to become
this way or I wouldn't.I will repect the man's site because he's done a
great thing for this internet by free dating on line but I shall give my
opinion in a cool way because I want just sit back and let other's drag
someone threw the mudd when it's not true or there isn't a need we all
are here for dating or freinds or other reason's but there is no way
that we shall all like each other.

Yeah I with ya on open communication, but sometimes it gets to the point
where it's not communicating any more but just flaming. I have noticed
that certain topics incite riots. Topics like politics can bring out the
worst in people. That would be a forum that needs a Moderator.

politics and religion doesn't need a moderator if everyone can accept
what others are saying, that doesn't in any way apply to what lady63 is
saying. i don't think a personal attack is a good topic for a thread and
if anyone posts a personal attack as a thread then they should be
reported as abusive. if you want to make personal attacks on people it
is going to get ugly because i don't know too many people who will let
them continue past a certain point and i wouldn't blame them for
responding.
everyone else should not be subjected to someones constant bitchin all
the time. if it was about a legitimate topic i wouldn't care.

you got that right!

I don't understand where I am not on topic as lady63 is expressing. I
think I am giving her a reason why certain people can't hold a civil
discussion on a topic. I have seen it my self You included King. we all
shear the blame for flaming each other at times. But I have seen it in
certain topics such as Politics.

if every other word is a cuss word, there's not much communicating going
on..

everyone is encouraged to voice their opinions. we don't except
everyone to agree. but we do think that there can be a common level of
respect.

I agree there's a difference between being rude and voicing one's
opinion.