A Cheater will DENY down to the LAST that they NEVER CHEATED!!!They are so good that they will even get U to believe that THEY NEVER had sex in their life even with U. They will tell U that they did not know what they were doing was hurting you but U cannot do them the same thing. Then they will say U are cheating!! They will say that U r seeing things that are not there; U imagination is running wild ete.

One SURE WAY THAT U KNOW U have been cheated on is when they bring U an STD. U might say thank God it is ONLY a curable illness like an itch but when will they bring herpes or some dreadful disease?

Here's the question:
What are other sure ways that U can KNOW U Mate is CHEATING?

And PLEASE. THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME ON SOME PERSONAL ISSUE.

If you think they are cheating, they are.

If you think you have an STD, you do.

If they have more than one personal email account, they are hiding something.

If they don't like you near them when they are on the computer, they are cheating.

If they get lots of quick phone calls while you are around, they are cheating.

I would say when they stop wanting to be physically close to you and actually don't want to have sex anymore. That made me think that my current ex was getting some somewhere else. Of course, he always denied it and would fight with me constantly about there not being anyone else. I can't even remember much about that relationship since I've met someone new- even though we were together over a year and I just left him in June. It feels like a lot longer and I've never been this happy.

Chances are, if your intuition is stating that something is going on and to get away, then something isn't right and you need to run!

What about if they are pushing you away, refusing sex for like 3 months because they say they have the cold; then they going to Doctor and getting heavy antibiotics that are prescribed for people with STDs where the Doc will say "No sex for two weeks!" and when they do have sex U get an STD?
And a couple of times when U do have sex 2 months apart, U get the SAME STD while they always can't have sex because they have the influenza but they staying up late and hardly getting enough sleep when they did not used to do that?

May I ask where do you get these situations from?

If this is a situation you know of first hand, or from a friend...isn't it up to you/them to figure it out?

To ask your/their partner, then decide if you/they trust the answer?

trust the instincts, they are generally right even though they say it isn't so. He got me to believe that black was white at one time in our relationship. Not anymore....black is black and white is white.

I have always listened to my instints...
If they tell me something is'nt right- than it usually is'nt.

The first sign...

He starts to listen to country music and insists on buying a new pick up truck...

What do you need, a sign? Move on - lovers are a dime a dozen.

all of a sudden they are putting everything you do down, nothing measures up any more

increase spending/ money unaccounted for
working late

working on their days off

i'M much too psychic to "think" someone is cheating.......

Once....when I was 8 months pregnant I dreamt that my bf was cheating with his ex gf...I woke up at the exact time it happened......I just knew......and it was true

starting a fight so they can leave in a huff and go to their gf/bf house

Sounds like ur an expert on cheating huh?? (Grieving)

joking BTW

hmmm lets see they tell you their cheating..........or beter yet ask you if mayby you should have an open relationship.....tha later could be because they are just thinking about cheating.......

those are all great reasons to suspect ur partner of cheating sure fire way is to actually catch them in the act

Ask.

Believe.

Or Leave.

cheating comes and goes with me but my ex's can't say they never had the best when they were with me:)