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Topic: Chronic Illness
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Mon 09/03/07 01:24 PM
Tell 'em up front.

The ones you don't want will run.

The good ones that you DO want will stay.flowerforyou

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Mon 09/03/07 01:31 PM
I think everyone has issues...when someone ask me how long it has been since I dated, when I tell them how long its been since I dated...they usually ask why!!! Thats when I explain that I had cancer and then my cancer made my migrains go crazy! Honestly, I find that most men don't mind. Most men are very compassionate.
Heres the thing, I am not really looking for a man though. I am just looking for friends, maybe thats why they are more understanding? I think if you are talking to someone and if you feel comfortable telling them...then thats what you should do. I am not one to hide anything. Maybe someone lost a loved one from cancer and the last thing they want to do is get involved with someone that just got over it!!
I got news on August 20th that I am in remission...so now we just got to get my migrains under control.
Good luck and just do what you feel comfortable with flowerforyou

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Mon 09/03/07 01:44 PM
I would tell them upfront myself.I have depression,anxiety(panic attacks) and I pee when I laugh.if they can't handle that then f@#$k em.Welcome and good luck to you.

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Mon 09/03/07 02:11 PM
unsure - flowerforyou I'm happy for your good news!! That is great!!

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Mon 09/03/07 02:15 PM
i guess she can't see me cause of my sparkley teeth.

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Mon 09/03/07 02:23 PM
cutelildevilsmom - I have a panic/anxiety disorder also.... but that has also gotten better when the stress levels went down... dicovered that the fear of an attack was acutally causing attacks.

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Mon 09/03/07 02:35 PM
thanks tanna .

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