To me it is becuase no reall girl here what u thing about it

I think and I don't want to be rude, but how can a free, say what you will, public website be boring unless the person writing a thread or post makes it boring.

I don't even remotely get some of the complaints that happen here.

Someone please post a sign here that says

"free"

If mingle is boring it is because it is made boring by the people who come here, and I hate to say it but this comment is usually made by someone new who has very little patience.

that said

Have you thought about taking up window shopping.