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Some days I stuggle with the decisions that I made in the care for my
wife. It's easy to second guess youself when the results were what they were. |
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Im sure you made the right decission at the time
it happened because it was her destiny, you will find peace with time, believe me, I did and so will you |
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I hope your right about finding peace.
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Edited by
vanchau
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Sun 10/22/06 12:22 AM
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and if you didn't make the best decisions then, do so now. starting
with yourself... doing what is healthy you for. for each of us, it's something different, but we usually know what it is. i think the advice of joining a support group makes a lot of sense. community helps. |
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and some therapy
helped me morena |
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WOW I am impessed that Vanchau is on the site at this hour, and am
pleased that you took the time for the post. Thank you. |
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Anther thing that really bugs me. When I have a good day everyone thinks
that eveyting is all better and can put everything behind us. When I have a bad day, everyone is so surprised because I had a good day before and can't understand why Im sad now. |
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yeap, but remember is your pain they forget in days what happpened to
your wife, but only you feel that pain that no one understand, don't mind them they don't know any better |
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The good news is I count blessings eveyday. I have so many things in my
life to be thankfull for. Some days are just sad days though. I hope that if I live throgh enough of them, I can count my blessings from mountain tops after all of these valleys. |
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Hey Morena350
Try milk or chicken before bed. |
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