Topic: 1 night stands??
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Fri 03/23/07 12:52 PM
not that its what im looking for, but i woudl say dont knock one night
stands till you've had at least one,

its exillaratting, theres no inhibitions, cuz you pick up at the bar,
and who kows if youll ever see the person again, or if youll spend the
rest of your life with them, the best sex i've ever had was with a one
night stand, and for that reason, ill always keep an open mind

trae_23's photo
Fri 03/23/07 01:16 PM
I agree, as long as that understood by both parties, it is kind of
fun!!!

DifferentDays's photo
Thu 03/29/07 07:51 PM
When your parents met in a bar, and have been together for 25 years (or
26? i forgot) it's hard to say **** NO! Because you never know when you
will meet that one. Then again, I don't have female friends to go bar
hopping with, and the guys around my area seem too, I'll be polite and
say shy, shy to walk up to me if and when I am in a bar. I have had a
one night stand, and it blew. Could have been the fact that a mouse was
better hung than him (almost literally) could have been the fact that he
had no stamina, or the fact that I found out later that he was a
scuzzbag and a rapist (think toys for those who noticed the earlier size
comment). But then again, I have had two **** buddies, and they were
fun and, hmmm, enlightening. I may or may not again, but just remember
to protect yourselves and its all cool as far as I am concerned.

mnhiker's photo
Thu 03/29/07 09:50 PM
One night stands?

What's the point?

You'll just end
up frustrated
anyway.

babyblus's photo
Mon 04/02/07 06:16 PM
myself, I don't believe in one night stands, and would NEVER EVER EVER
have a one night stand, I deserve more then that!

shenadra's photo
Tue 04/03/07 02:49 AM
I would rather go without then to have a one night stand...

Sex is something special, and it should be done with your partner, not
just someone who looks good for the moment....Have you thought about how
they are gonna look in the morning????

CATBW56's photo
Tue 04/03/07 04:20 AM
No thanks, I'm not into one night stands.

loves73animals's photo
Thu 10/11/07 10:22 AM
I'm religious, so my answers NO!!!!!

BornInTheUSA's photo
Thu 10/11/07 01:20 PM
You never know what's going to happen. One night could lead to more, to a lifetime as some here tell. Alot of it is what you hope to get out of it - are you a pessimist and are happy with that one shag, or an optimist and and hope it's the beginning of a be-yoo-tee-ful relationship? Does it matter? At least you're trying.

F***buddies - yeah, tough call here. Living here alone, thousands of miles from home, can make for depressing holidays and lonely weekends. I'm guilty - I once had a friend and, when times got tough, we relied on each other for comfort and love. I don't know -- history tells me it's neigh impossible to be intimate and expect to remain just friends, so you'd better prepare one day for her to look at you square in the eyes and ask where it's all going.

And then you've got a choice to make.

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 10/13/07 08:39 PM
I'd rather have a real relationship, but hey, a one night stand is still better than nothing at all. I had one about 17 years ago and it ended up lasting 1 1/2 years, so, ya never know.

hockeypmp93's photo
Sat 10/13/07 11:08 PM
25/m/stcharles,mo hit me up for one!

aje26's photo
Sat 10/13/07 11:14 PM
Yeah one night stands are not for me! Thats what a f*** friend is for! :wink: laugh

no photo
Sun 10/14/07 09:19 AM
One night stands?

What's the point?

You'll just end
up frustrated
anyway.



Well said, Mnhikerdrinker .I couldn't agree more.

BornInTheUSA's photo
Sun 10/14/07 11:53 AM
I really find it interesting that the women more-often than not approve of the one-nighters, whilst the men tend to consider it a mistake waiting to happen...

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Mon 10/15/07 12:07 AM
im with them there cool and exciting you kno the thrill of the chase and then you let all that sexual tension build up till you cant take it no more and then baaam it just explodes and you drop all you enibishions

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Mon 10/15/07 05:09 AM
He better be worth the bother otherwise I am gonna ask for refund hahahahahahahahabigsmile

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:55 AM
As a person who knows what they instinctively like I still don't buy the notion that you can know someone well enough to have really great sex with then in a one night stand situation.

BornInTheUSA's photo
Mon 10/15/07 06:14 AM
It's not about knowing them. It's about knowing what they want. :wink:

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Tue 10/16/07 04:37 PM
Hey aje, how does one find a f*** friend anyway?

Jtevans's photo
Tue 10/16/07 04:59 PM
1 night stand?i don't think i could stand for a full night,not without breaks every few hours or so and alot of energy drinks ohwell