Hi, I'm new to this online dating stuff. Any feedback on my profile would be greatly appreciated. Personally I think listing your capital city as your location is a bit broad, there must be more of us out in suburbia, south East of Melbourne - I'm hoping so anyway. Look forward to hearing from you - go on, I can take it!

Your profile looks great, You should be getting plenty of mail soon..

Aww. Thanks for taking the time to look at it for me. I hope it works too! Have a good one..

I see a couple of contradictions In what you say you want but over all it isn't too bad.

I would express and interest that says more about the person you are. My guess is you are way more than an isolated Lesbian.

Keep up the photo you used but I think you might have a little better response with a different lead shot. Something a little more engaging in eye contact and more of a smile. Nothing overboard for your personality. You are a very natural and pretty woman I think people would be attracted to your appearance if you relaxed thinking of a friend or loved one that accepts you when you snap your future photos. What you used seems a bit fearful and like you are expressing body language that says back off or close to tears.

Active shots that tell a story are always a plus in getting a meeting with someone that is willing to have a real relationship. A full length shot would probably help. Color in your clothes always helps.

I would caution you to be careful and follow the suggested guide lines in meeting the people in your future so you have a happy experience. The suggestions are not to exclude anyone but to give you safe choices and avoid the creeps that are just as aggressive towards you as anyone else.

I know for a fact that there are quality people in the Lesbian community that have met through Mingle on both coasts in the USA and while I am not Lesbian I have repeatedly recommended to women as a safe and affordable option. Hopefully you will be equally fortunate.

Join the forums and read through the posts of people you like and you should make friends. I have seen very little to almost no gender discrimination on this site in a decade.

Wow thanks. That was pretty powerful stuff considering I am a person of great contradiction and carry a lot of fear, something I was trying to break out of when the photo was taken. Thanks for that it gives me a really good insight into where I'm at