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Topic: Is there any hope for black women over 40
musthav1 Joined Sat 10/19/13 Posts: 7	Fri 10/25/13 01:31 PM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 10/25/13 02:29 PM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? If only you lived much closer to me, then I could give you hope.

Beaulla2013 Joined Wed 09/04/13 Posts: 15	Sun 10/27/13 05:25 AM
Hi no ure nt girl,hang in there this 2 will pass!

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Sun 10/27/13 06:32 AM
Yes! We have to believe musthav1! Just remember the more you participate in forums the more people you meet. Keep hope alive!

notbeold Joined Sat 06/01/13 Posts: 2406	Sun 10/27/13 06:34 AM
Look at different guys, in different places, not pub & club types, & big headed cocky sweet talkers. Your'e nice, don't give up, change tack or change bait.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Sun 10/27/13 07:49 AM Edited by CremeBrulee on Sun 10/27/13 07:50 AM
Look at different guys, in different places, not pub & club types, & big headed cocky sweet talkers. Your'e nice, don't give up, change tack or change bait. I agree!! Smooth talkers are just all that-talk! Hang in there-am not over 40yet,but hey,its slow even this side!! Mingle in!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 10/27/13 08:29 PM Edited by Dodo_David on Sun 10/27/13 08:29 PM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me.

idyhope Joined Mon 10/28/13 Posts: 2	Mon 10/28/13 04:16 AM
How honest are you Beautiful lady?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 10/28/13 09:57 AM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Aliens and excuses!! Dry your tears already...and don't let me catch you moaning over distance!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 10/28/13 01:02 PM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Aliens and excuses!! Dry your tears already...and don't let me catch you moaning over distance!! Well, Newbiechick, if you would move near me, then the only moaning would be due to ... Wait. What were we talking about?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 10/28/13 09:30 PM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Aliens and excuses!! Dry your tears already...and don't let me catch you moaning over distance!! Well, Newbiechick, if you would move near me, then the only moaning would be due to ... Wait. What were we talking about? TWAAAFF!

potrillo22 Joined Wed 10/30/13 Posts: 1	Wed 10/30/13 08:23 AM
Hi beautiful ladies the guy who are wearing is here

sange44 Joined Wed 08/07/13 Posts: 15	Thu 10/31/13 04:17 AM
Yeah I'm finding the same thing as you but I refuse to give up hope on happiness and a fulfilled relationship. I think some guys think that if your over 40 and single then you must be desperate and will settle for anything, hence trying to bed you as quickly as humanly possible.

Lodonvibes Joined Thu 10/31/13 Posts: 5	Thu 10/31/13 05:15 AM
Ain't too late Hun, 'Nuff decent men still out there- although gotta admit -with some of them probably taken them 40 plus years to recognise the wheat from the chaff... Just continue to hold out for your worth as found those settling for anything less were often happier alone... Bless

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Thu 10/31/13 06:04 AM
There is hope for the living.Trust God,he will do it but go for violent deliverance first.Sometimes,spiritual husbands and other powers dont allow people to get married until they are forcefully driven out.Same thing applies to men too!

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Thu 10/31/13 06:12 AM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Might not want to date a Melmacian,on account that she has a Cat!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Thu 10/31/13 10:22 AM
I am sooooo tired of coming across men who main goal is a dead end sexual relationship. I refuse to believe its to late for me to find love and marriage. Am I the only one going thru this? it all depends on the kind of guy you're looking for

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 10/31/13 10:19 PM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Might not want to date a Melmacian,on account that she has a Cat! You said it!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 11/01/13 06:01 AM
Has musthav1 considered dating a Melmacian? Newbiechick lives way too far away from me. Might not want to date a Melmacian,on account that she has a Cat! You said it!! Oh, I could go on a diet for Newbiechick.

musthav1 Joined Sat 10/19/13 Posts: 7	Sat 11/02/13 02:36 PM
Thank you everyone for the encouragement. After talking to some married and long-termed couples, I know what i want. My list has been cut to whats most important. N Yes..I do date outside my race. I gave it to God, but some days I do wonder. Especially when I see so many of us walking around. But I will wait. I know it will happen. Thanks again everyone. Hugs n Kisses