ok things are wonderful right now.. knock on wood... my son is sound asleep and doesnt seem to stir easy like he has before... i miss having his crib next to the bed.. i could roll over and stair at him.. but now hes on the other side of the room.. my doc said since i'm having another baby i need to get him used to mommy not being so close to him at night.. that mommy will be buisy and cant do the normal with him... i feel like a bad mommy when i look over at him and hes standing up and giving me the pouty look... i just want to pull him into bed with me and snuggle like we did whe he was newborn when i would breast feed and put him to sleep...

*sighs*

i'd say to pull that baby in bed with you.

and i'd get a new doc, lol. there's no reason that you can't be extra there for your son now...and no reason that he should need to leave your bed.

hmmmm 10 months old.....I think my son was still in a crib for the longest time.....till he was almost 2!!! But then a day bed....what is wrong with having 2 cribs???

i don't do cribs. my kids have all slept WITH me...

following safe co-sleeping rules, of course...

soooo good for breastfeeding.

I sleep too crazy......no baby in my bed...but when I left his father, I would wake up and he would be in my bed....I also found pens, batteries and himself covered in my mascara...hahaha

its weird when my son isnt in bed with me i flop like a fish but when hes in bed with me i lay on my side like a mother cat and pull him close to my breast.. mind you i stopped breast feeding but still he would cuddle up next to my breast and hold my boob like he did when he would eat and he would sleep all night long.. I MISS THAT SNUGGLE TIME.. and yes LULU i want to get a new doc... i want my son in my bed for a while but its true i cant have two babys in bed with me.... with my son i put him in the bassinet tell he was 4 1/2 months. when he started rolling i moved him to the bed with me... i had a stack of pillows all the way around my bed and on the floor.. i just would feel bad for him not getting that night time snuggle with his little sister in bed.. ya know

why can't you have two in the bed?

when we had two...i put the mattress on the floor, to make absolute certain that neither could fall. i was in the middle...and could roll over to whichever child needed me at the time.

if you like, i can send you some forum links for discussions on attachment parenting and the family bed.

please that would so rock out loud.... sense the daddy and i are kinda on the outs its been hard for me.. i never slept alone for about 3 years unless he was out doing drugs but still i got used to someone in bed with me... and well my son is a great snuggler