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Topic: im being tugged
southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:24 PM
my parents who are paying my bills til i get a job tells me going to college isnt important right now

but my grandparents want me to go to college

i feel like im in a freakin tug of war game and nobodys listening to me they each tell me what the want me to go to school for but have never asked me!:angry:

im at the end of my rope!help what can i say to make them listen to me abd stop trying to control my life :angry:

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:26 PM
In the end it is your desision what to do...
Let them know you are looking at both sides of the situation
and will decide in time what you want to do... :smile:

no photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:28 PM
Do what you want........and if that means paying for your own college then do it!!! If you don't want to thats fine too but if ya wanna make the big bucks, they don't pay well at mcdonalds!!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:31 PM
go to college . it wil be worth it in the end

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:32 PM
my mom wants me to be a manager my grandmother wants me to go into the medical field

i cant get a word in edge wise cuz after either of them are done talking thier ears are closed

i cant make one happy with out aggrivating the other then i get *****ed at twice as much grumble

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:35 PM
Tell them you love them...

Maybe that will stop the *itching for awhile...

Goodluck dear flowerforyou

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:37 PM
well i wanted to hold them hostage for a lil while but ill try and talk to them and see how fast it takes thiers ears to close laugh

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:38 PM
What do you want to do SouthernBee?

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:40 PM
i wanna work with computers

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:42 PM
Ok then how about this you Major in say Computer Technology iwth a Minor In Business Mangement..........then you make everyone happy.......you have your wish to work with computers, your grandparents are happy that your going to college.......and you can show your parents that you will go far in mangement by having a degree in it.........:smile:

iRon's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:42 PM
What you should do with family and school I can't say but I can promise it will work its way out.

But what I can suggest is that you get a new dog, cause damn girl, that dog needs help.

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:45 PM
i like my gaurddog iron keeps the creepies away laugh

anyway.my grandparents told my parents i needed a car so my parents let me pick out a new truck and

my grandparents didnt like the fact i got a truck instead of a car..

my family is crazy.help melaugh

Jess642's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:46 PM
Wow!!! Will they adopt me?? I could do with a new truck...I could sell my opinions, and wants for a new truck..laugh laugh

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:47 PM
I could use a truck also............so put me on the list for adoption.............and I wouldn't mind getting my Masters degree if someone wants to pay for that.......:smile: laugh

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:50 PM
lol they will drive u crazy my family is crazy.....trying lving here a week

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:50 PM
piece of cake, after raising two kids on my own........want to switch......have one in college, and one a senior in high school................laugh

Jess642's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:51 PM
Your family would run away from home, if I was there...laugh I put the z back in crazy..

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:55 PM
my grandmother thought there were police in our computer watvhing us...

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 08/31/07 05:57 PM
well you never know who is watching you.........and is that better than someone watching you through the window............................laugh


its sometimes hard for the older generation to adjust to new technology.........and just think she could be like Granny from the Beverly Hillbillies, then you wouldn't have a computer it would of been shot.......and put in the kettle for cooking.................laugh

southern_bee's photo
Fri 08/31/07 06:00 PM
they city folk so im not all to worried about things getting shot its more her driving granny makes everyone car sick and she freaked out b.c she couldnt find a pen and she was missing one forklaugh

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