I'm technically bisexual but when it comes to dating, physical chemistry and such, I have a definite preference for women. After two serious relationships with women, both of which ended badly (the latter of which was my fault), I realized that I needed to buck up my ideas. And now that I know what I want, she seems elusive...typical.
What I want to know is, are there any lesbian/bi ladies in a relationship or otherwise, who can give me advice? it would be greatly appreciated.

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Give it time, be yourself and the right girl will come along. I myself am looking for the right woman as well. I have only been back in the dating scene for a short time. I'm taking it slow, because I don't want to rush into something, only to be hurt, again..... I also did some soul searching for a long time. I redescovered myself, and thought long and hard about who I am as a person, and what I'm looking for in others. Hope this helps. :-) :-) :-)

You might go back and actually read her post this time. : rofl:

may i ask u ?
how do these changes come into urselves....and how can u accept same alike bodies?..i mean u have all that what u want in other its really difficult for me to understand....its not like that im disrepecting u...but simplally i want to know...im so curious

what changes are you in reference? that someone is bisexual or gay? these are not changes one makes in themselves...it is how they are wired...how they view people...their emotions...just because one person is born one gender does not necessarily mean that they can or able to love ONLY the opposite gender...myself included...while I am in love with my boyfriend and very attracted to him...I am also attracted to females as well....every human body is a work of art and its how you open your eyes to view them you can also open your heart to love them and in essence want to be apart of being with that person not just emotionally but physically as well....