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I can't believe how some people are so trusting on here. Do you people watch the news. I've had several just give me cell numbers to text them.I'm not saying I don't want to talk to you guys either. I'm just saying how do you not know I might be a crazy person!! Just be careful giving people info. Yes guys I do wanna talk to you so don't take it wrong way!!
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They're probably the crazy people.
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. . . how do you not know I might be a crazy person!!
If you are on this site, then craziness is assumed. 
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True Dat
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Word.
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Uh yeah. They're just trying to score some nude pics from you.
They throw their numbers at u so they can do the picture exchange thing. 
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What is threatening about someone having your cell phone number or email address (assuming that neither identify you personally)?
Is the potential or imaged "threat" of receiving unwanted calls or emails so great that one must build walls (which could dissuade genuinely interested people)? When I encounter a woman who is that easily frightened I suspect that she is likely to be scared to death to actually meet in person or to do anything so dangerous as go on a hike or go canoeing. |
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So true!!! Be more cautious, they're trying psychological reverse thing to you...
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What is threatening about someone having your cell phone number or email address (assuming that neither identify you personally)? Is the potential or imaged "threat" of receiving unwanted calls or emails so great that one must build walls (which could dissuade genuinely interested people)? When I encounter a woman who is that easily frightened I suspect that she is likely to be scared to death to actually meet in person or to do anything so dangerous as go on a hike or go canoeing. I can do a lot with a phone number, I can do a lot with an e-mail address too. The great thing is that I can do it for pretty much free, I can figure out where you live and rummage through your trash for other things I can use...I can figure out websites where your email address has been used and create a profile of the type of person you are, and start making moves with security flaws that are pretty easy to get around with email accounts; then I can have access to your mailbox and everything in it. |
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What is threatening about someone having your cell phone number or email address (assuming that neither identify you personally)? Is the potential or imaged "threat" of receiving unwanted calls or emails so great that one must build walls (which could dissuade genuinely interested people)? When I encounter a woman who is that easily frightened I suspect that she is likely to be scared to death to actually meet in person or to do anything so dangerous as go on a hike or go canoeing. I can do a lot with a phone number, I can do a lot with an e-mail address too. The great thing is that I can do it for pretty much free, I can figure out where you live and rummage through your trash for other things I can use...I can figure out websites where your email address has been used and create a profile of the type of person you are, and start making moves with security flaws that are pretty easy to get around with email accounts; then I can have access to your mailbox and everything in it. You better not be doing that shiiit with my number..lmao |
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What is threatening about someone having your cell phone number or email address (assuming that neither identify you personally)? Is the potential or imaged "threat" of receiving unwanted calls or emails so great that one must build walls (which could dissuade genuinely interested people)? When I encounter a woman who is that easily frightened I suspect that she is likely to be scared to death to actually meet in person or to do anything so dangerous as go on a hike or go canoeing. I can do a lot with a phone number, I can do a lot with an e-mail address too. The great thing is that I can do it for pretty much free, I can figure out where you live and rummage through your trash for other things I can use...I can figure out websites where your email address has been used and create a profile of the type of person you are, and start making moves with security flaws that are pretty easy to get around with email accounts; then I can have access to your mailbox and everything in it. You better not be doing that shiiit with my number..lmao Nah, I've never done it actually...But I know how to do it, and imagine I am probably not the only one. |
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What is threatening about someone having your cell phone number or email address (assuming that neither identify you personally)? Is the potential or imaged "threat" of receiving unwanted calls or emails so great that one must build walls (which could dissuade genuinely interested people)? When I encounter a woman who is that easily frightened I suspect that she is likely to be scared to death to actually meet in person or to do anything so dangerous as go on a hike or go canoeing. I can do a lot with a phone number, I can do a lot with an e-mail address too. The great thing is that I can do it for pretty much free, I can figure out where you live and rummage through your trash for other things I can use...I can figure out websites where your email address has been used and create a profile of the type of person you are, and start making moves with security flaws that are pretty easy to get around with email accounts; then I can have access to your mailbox and everything in it. so the guy i just have my email to...who isnt emailing me back....might be learning where i live right now??? ummm how do i fix this cuz that is freaking me out... |
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It's true..I had a stalker once..that way..
Now I don't trust hardly any mofos. 
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I mean, the guy that taught me how to do it found out where a dude lived with nothing more than a screen name...I'm just saying, there is a bit of truth to being careful on the internet; use your best judgement.
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Pretty unwise to give their cell numbers. They should
at least wait a couple of days, to take it to the next level. 
No, I wouldn't give out mine. If I'm talking to someone for long enough to know that I like, and can trust them, I may consider giving them my e-mail addy. |
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Pretty unwise to give their cell numbers. They should at least wait a couple of days, to take it to the next level.
No, I wouldn't give out mine. If I'm talking to someone for long enough to know that I like, and can trust them, I may consider giving them my e-mail addy. Couple of days...lolol It has taken me almost 6 years and maybe 4 people have my digits here And they are all people I trust. Even if I want somebody's number I won't ask..for fear of them thinking I'm a crazy..lol |
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Pretty unwise to give their cell numbers. They should at least wait a couple of days, to take it to the next level.
No, I wouldn't give out mine. If I'm talking to someone for long enough to know that I like, and can trust them, I may consider giving them my e-mail addy. Couple of days...lolol It has taken me almost 6 years and maybe 4 people have my digits here And they are all people I trust. Even if I want somebody's number I won't ask..for fear of them thinking I'm a crazy..lol Make it three days, and some will give out their credit card no. Yeah, we have to be careful whom we give our info out to. All we see is a pic and a profile. We can't even get a good idea of what someone is like, if they aren't posting on the forums. And you mentioned having a stalker. Must have been pretty frightening!
I won't give out my number either. My e-mail address if I think I can trust them. Not too much info they can get from hotmail. At I don't think. |
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I've been puzzling over how to deal with this issue a lot recently. I'm getting to know someone on this site slowly but I don't know when if ever it would be appropriate to exchange that kind of info. ironically, according to our profiles we live in the same town so all this internal conflict over what to do may end up being meaningless if we both end up waiting in line at the supermarket.
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So true!!! Be more cautious, they're trying psychological reverse thing to you... Oh God, here we go: Love starved CIA agents running around practising their MK Ultra voodoo -hoodoo on women's brains trying to turn them into mindless robots that will comply to any wish a male makes; another version of 'the step ford wife syndrome'!
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I've been puzzling over how to deal with this issue a lot recently. I'm getting to know someone on this site slowly but I don't know when if ever it would be appropriate to exchange that kind of info. ironically, according to our profiles we live in the same town so all this internal conflict over what to do may end up being meaningless if we both end up waiting in line at the supermarket. It is a good start though, Ray. I'd just advise to take it slow. Maybe even wait until she mentions exchanging info. |
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