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Frrrreaked to know theres so many women out there that value money more than anything else
@KinBarrie Im in trouble too ![]() ![]() |
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When dating, is it wrong to want a man to match what you earn, if not more?
If that is what a single woman is wanting, then she isn't seeking love. Instead, she is seeking a lifestyle. Right now, my only source of income are the monthly SSDI payments that I receive from the U.S. government. Does my low level of income make me incapable of giving love and support to a woman? I think not. I am thinking you are missing the point. No one said you are incapable of giving love and support to a woman; however I know what it is like to foot the bill to support a man and almost lost my home doing it. I think anyone in a relationship should share equal payments when living together and ideally it should be 50/50 which means you should both be making the same or close to the same amount of money to survive. It may not be romantic but its practical. |
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If they can.
I've stated out with women who could pull my weight. I didn't boot em out just cuz circumstances changed. That old term 'it's the man's place to support the woman ' has yet to die. Women's lib fought hard to get women out of that mind set. I have one right now,who, for the last 4 years has survived cancer. I can see it if, the partner is just a sponge. Not like Spongebob. He's a workaholic. |
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Frrrreaked to know theres so many women out there that value money more than anything else @KinBarrie Im in trouble too ![]() ![]() We'll have to get an apartment, to pull in enough money so we can afford dates. ![]() |
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When dating, is it wrong to want a man to match what you earn, if not more?
If that is what a single woman is wanting, then she isn't seeking love. Instead, she is seeking a lifestyle. Right now, my only source of income are the monthly SSDI payments that I receive from the U.S. government. Does my low level of income make me incapable of giving love and support to a woman? I think not. I am thinking you are missing the point. No one said you are incapable of giving love and support to a woman; however I know what it is like to foot the bill to support a man and almost lost my home doing it. I think anyone in a relationship should share equal payments when living together and ideally it should be 50/50 which means you should both be making the same or close to the same amount of money to survive. It may not be romantic but its practical. ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 09/01/13 08:57 PM
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I'm not concerned about what kind of lifestyle he lives or what kind of money he makes. Me, I can take care of myself.
I would have trouble meshing with someone who is very irresponsible with money though. If he is motivated and practical enough to sustain the lifestyle he lives, tells me he is a responsible person. To me that means he is not likely to be a blatant cause of financial disaster in our future, and will be a level headed and proactive partner if circumstances ever lead to money troubles. |
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Frrrreaked to know theres so many women out there that value money more than anything else @KinBarrie Im in trouble too ![]() ![]() We'll have to get an apartment, to pull in enough money so we can afford dates. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bank robbery in the name of lurrve perhaps? ![]() ![]() |
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Frrrreaked to know theres so many women out there that value money more than anything else @KinBarrie Im in trouble too ![]() ![]() We'll have to get an apartment, to pull in enough money so we can afford dates. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bank robbery in the name of lurrve perhaps? ![]() ![]() Looks like a heist is in the cards? We may be running out of options here? ![]() The lottery! ![]() |
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I'm not concerned about what kind of lifestyle he lives or what kind of money he makes. Me, I can take care of myself. I would have trouble meshing with someone who is very irresponsible with money though. If he is motivated and practical enough to sustain the lifestyle he lives, tells me he is a responsible person. To me that means he is not likely to be a blatant cause of financial disaster in our future, and will be a level headed and proactive partner if circumstances ever lead to money troubles. ![]() |
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I thnk t depends on whether h wants to or h's jus a lazy sme1.i thnk u cn tel a lot by sme1's dreams
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