Topic: What to do?
JoeK86's photo
Sun 08/26/07 09:38 PM
I got married at 18 years old and it ended not too long ago. I'm not sure how to get back into dating or even what to say anymore. I was so comfortable being married that occassionaly I still feel guilty when I talk to a woman, like I'm cheating or something and because of that I can't hardly talk to a woman I like. There's that, but I'm also worried about being betrayed like before and it keeps me from moving forward. Can anyone help me with this?

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 08/26/07 09:45 PM
Well Joe, when the time is right which your heart will know and you will to, then and only then is when you'll be able to move on.

Just talk to as many people as you can rather woman and get to know them, maybe just as friends first and see where that goes who knows.

Noting here has worked for me, guess that's just life.


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Sun 08/26/07 09:47 PM
Once the divorce papers are signed........youre free!!!! Enjoy your life and don't try to get tied down for the sake of not being alone.flowerforyou

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sun 08/26/07 09:54 PM
flowerforyou Hi Joe welcome to the site...

Just come in here & post & get to know everybody!

there is no reason to feel guilty anyways if your just making friends.
The problem alot of guys have is they make a mission out of it to find a woman...
Just get comfortable in your own head first, then what ever happens happens...drinker

kree001's photo
Sun 08/26/07 09:59 PM
Joe, I wish I had some great words of wisdom for you, I have the opposite situation, I have been single 10 years, most of it anyway, and that has been by choice, I feel knowing myself will make me a better partner one day, this is my very first post, (shy,) but have read many, I think this is a great place to start to make connections, friendship or otherwise, but, don't look to hard, your special one will find you when you you least expect it....

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Sun 08/26/07 09:59 PM
:heart: And SHE means THAT!!!!!!!:heart: bigsmile

Hi Catch,,,,,:smile:




Just go slow and post some replies to posts you like, they (ladies) will see YOU and you THEM,,and you will start to become friends, and the REST just happens here....:heart:

GOOD LUCK....drinker smokin

kree001's photo
Sun 08/26/07 10:04 PM
oops,

was thinking this was the first post , but I guess not, I must be getting braver.........LOL

peace

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 08/27/07 05:21 AM
Well I think you made a brave first step...

by joining this site and talking about it.

Take a deep breath and have patience.

It will come more natural the longer you are single.

I was scared to death to join the single scene myself, when

I first got out there. I am more comfortable now...

Goodluck to you...