well the amazing feeling when your woman leaves you saying that you have been poseive [ well thats not a crime, actually its mens love] and then after a gap of lot of gapped communications, when you truely hear her voice again, it brings down all the days in betwen and the warmth is back. gosh as soon as i hear, all those days of being uncared of ris forgotten even if i am to hear , dont you dare call me. good lord just to hear the hello . oh my. well she is back and damn i am elated!!!!!!

DO NOT speak for all men, we are not all possessive, that's a trait of insecurity, not of being male.

Possessiveness means different things to different people. Sure, I'm insecure if she doesn't call or is hanging around with another guy. Who wouldn't be apart from somebody that didn't care about her?

Did you read what the op said?

"even if i am to hear , dont you dare call me."

The man is a stalker. Appearently the woman he's speaking of does not want to have anything to do with him.

If you are talking about me I'm not a stalker. How can you possibly know what a woman that you don't know does or does not want?

A woman tells me that she will call me and doesn't. I leave it, even though I've got her number. That's not being a stalker.

Hm, difficult to tell but there is this lady I like so much and I have told her so, but I quess she is not interested. Now if I decide to pursue her, will I be stalking her, or will that be harassment. CANNT BE SURE, CAN YOU.

Sorry, I misread your post. Thought that you were talking about me.

I was talking about the opening post, and quoted him..sorry you misunderstood.

wghoa whoa where did that come from dame? seriously, cut it short, being possesive is nothing bout insecurity and she got nothing to do with me? well why is she back? wel the point is she wasnt 100 percent into it aas much we[ men who r possesive] are in it. got nothing is a stupid judgement