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Topic: women vs married men
lorden09 Joined Wed 07/17/13 Posts: 1	Tue 08/20/13 08:25 PM
Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 08/20/13 08:29 PM


jaded72 Joined Tue 12/06/11 Posts: 1456	Tue 08/20/13 08:32 PM
Um. Is this a trick question?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 08/20/13 08:32 PM
Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong? what you are doing wrong is that you are married go pay for it

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Tue 08/20/13 08:35 PM Edited by sybariticguy on Tue 08/20/13 08:36 PM
First you are disrespecting yourself, your marriage & your husband. Why not address what issues you have in your marriage first before betraying yourself, your husband and your marriage. If you want permission dont expect it from me as i would simply call you cowardly in the absence of more data. You might consider a therapist and ascertain what is going on with you in your marriage before you cause such pain and disruption.,..

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 08/20/13 08:37 PM
Um. Is this a trick question? feels like it

KinBarrie Joined Fri 08/16/13 Posts: 1752	Tue 08/20/13 08:39 PM
The moral thing would try to get divorced first. If you truly love your husband, you won't cheat on him. If you don't love him, then try to contain yourself until after you're divorced.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 08/20/13 08:41 PM
Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong? are there special websites for married and dating? I see ads all the time, however I am a faithful partner. Perhaps you should talk to your wife about becoming a swinger and see how she responds. It's not very fair to her nor yourself. Put pride aside, and be honest with her. If it's the thrill you seek then try shark cage diving or bungee jumping, don't get high by getting away with an affair. It's prideful and disrespectful to your whole whole family. I am not judging you, but you should go to the websites that support this stuff and you will find other people who look for married men.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM * Disclaimer*

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 08/20/13 08:44 PM
Just for the records; the poster is a guy; however I think that if he doesn't love his wife enough to respect her then divorce her.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 08/20/13 08:49 PM
Also for the record he has only one post a month ago when he started this thread....

eyemaflirt247 Joined Tue 05/28/13 Posts: 91	Tue 08/20/13 08:55 PM
Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong? There are women who will do things for the right price. You work two jobs, so obviously there are issues going on in your marriage. I'm guessing that one of you if not both of you have gotten bored with the intimacy portion of the relationship. You either owe alot if back child support, or have extremely high debts that require you to take on a second job. Either way the more you present yourself to women, the less attractive you become. Find a new way to spark the fire in your marriage, or get out of it. More importantly forget about us single ladies. We're not interested.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 08/20/13 09:17 PM
At least he's being honest with us, LMAO, Then again we aren't married to him. In the profile it says you work two jobs and when you come home she's gone. Is she working to help support your family?

irfan333 Joined Wed 01/09/13 Posts: 1	Tue 08/20/13 10:30 PM
no.. you may get the success...

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Tue 08/20/13 10:58 PM
Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong? YES...they are called hookers lol

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Tue 08/20/13 11:42 PM
I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt! Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble? Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship. The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies. I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!!

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Tue 08/20/13 11:45 PM
I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt! Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble? Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship. The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies. I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!! {Standing ovation !}

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Wed 08/21/13 01:15 AM
I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt! Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble? Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship. The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies. I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!! {Standing ovation !} YOU ARE TO SWEET...BLUSHES!!!