Although I admit that I am not a perfect, devoted, christian; it does influence my life and my decisions. For example, the decision to remain a virgin until marriage.
However, having these beliefs can be difficult as in todays society, sex seems to have less meaning and most just 'give it up' to the person they 'think' they've fallen in love with. Waiting until marriage seems to be an older tradition which older generations follow and the 'youth' of today are grow up not caring as much about their 'gift' and religion.
Am I crazy to think that my perfect guy is out there somewhere? (Ps. I know 'perfect' is a strong word, but you get what I mean) Someone who shares certain religious values as well as interests.

Hello to you dear sister

"Am I crazy to think that my perfect guy is out there somewhere?"
Nope, you not crazy dear
Instead you're normal like any other girl/lady that loves life, ambitious & planning a good future that involves a great father to her kids & a wonderful husbend/partner by her side. I think its every girls' wish (who wants to settle down someday) to have her desired life time partner to spend her future days with, depending on her personal values & requirements of a good husbend.

"Youth of today grow up not caring as much about their gifts & religion"
Maybe not caring that much about their gifts, But religion is still a big deal as far as i've observed. We may fail to keep up with certain instruction, like abstaining from sex
But religion is just as important now as it was back then.

"however having these believes can be difficult as in todays' society, sex seems to have less meaning & most just give it up to the person they 'think' they've fallen in love with."
That one is very true dear,
Media contributes a lot to this issue. Sex is every where you look, not to mantion the easy access young people have to porn vedios without parents knowing, we just download from our cell phones & have these things registered in our minds,
Next thing we wanna put them into practice.

Your post is very realistic & true dear.
Sex has lost its meaning these days, especially since we have rights & freedom of choice in deciding what we wanna do with our bodies.

I'm not perfect either, I have inadequacies. But young lady, you stick to your beliefs. You'll find someone who will value them! Just like I have.

Oldhippi,

I'm wondering why you're on a Christian singles site, if you've found a partner who values you?

Just wondering...

This isn't strictly a Christian singles site. Many made friends in the forums and stay for the forums.

What yellowrose said, both of us are still on here.

hi.can we be frends pls.

i may be in the minority here but i think there are many "perfect ones" out there. And at the end of the day it's your choice that will determine that and compatibility as well. But i don't think there's just one person, it's more about finding that "right" person for you. Prayer helps alot !! God bless

If we were allowed to stone disvirgined "sisters" in the churches today,i guess you and very few others could stand alive.keep it up,its not easy for us men either.its just determination and radical prayers,reading the word,commitment to fasting and evangelism that kept me from sexual sins since i repented,over 7 years now.Jesus is real,am a witness