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i think it comes down to compromising, if i have to give up something and i can see it would destroy our relationship if i don't then i'll make that sacrifice, but at the end of the day it has to be worth it. It all comes down to compromising and how far you would go.
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what about the toys that make me $ ? ((((Ride)))))  where the hell you been??? Something funny I noticed..everyone calls you pony...n I call you ride.   @(((ride))))    lol..but thats ok, we can do it your way nice to be back
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My belongings are mine. If you can't accept that then you are not Luna, whom I seek & is the only girl that I would ever be with. I don't go around telling girls what they're allowed to posses so why would they try to tell me what I can have? I don't want the girl that I'm with to be my mother. Telling me what to do, nagging me for no reason, and being a total drag. I'm capable of making my own decisions. Just in case you don't know who I am. I am Lunar, The MoonsDragonLionWolf, Knight Of Moonlight!  I purposely used the word "give". Isn't to give indicative of willingness?  It pains me to see so many jump to this kind of conclusion...as we weigh everything on the scales of experience. Have women really become such oppressors of men these days?  No because I'm not willingly giving away anything just because you have problems with me having something and you not liking it. There are women who try to oppress and suppress men and others who don't. No differently than men. Sad, but valid point Fear, but that's not what this was supposed to be about. Everyone seems to want to make it about that kind of demand though, so yours is not the first time my meaning was misunderstood. So I have to believe I did not phrase it well, or this has snowballed from the first person who made this kind of response. There are many reasons why both parties might have to make sacrifices in order to be together. Whether financial, constraints in living arrangements, one party moving a long distance that they cannot take all of their belongings or allergies to...IDK...leather or whatever. If a VALID reason would cause you to make a choice of relationship or your stuff...what would you choose. That might have been a better way to pose the question in the OP...had I realized it would have taken this path.  I'll live under a bridge in a cardboard box with all of my stuff before I ever give it up. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Thu 08/15/13 11:02 AM
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{{{Hi Ouizee }}}Well thank you for the warm welcoming back, i missed all you guys aswell,I was just reading your profile...it was quite an enjoyable read,funny and you definately know the right things to say  i'm trying to figure out if those are river Otters on your main pic? the dry one looks like a prairie dog,dosen't it??? So your in cowtown..lol is the Calgary stampede on now or is it still flooding? probably will finish my winter season off in FT Mac and take a flight out of Cargary |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Thu 08/15/13 11:03 AM
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(((((Ride)))))
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Thu 08/15/13 11:25 AM
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(((((Ride)))))  so i clicked back and saw you ajusted yours and nobody knows WTF were talking about  {{ 2KM }}
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(((((Ride))))) so i clicked back and saw you ajusted yours and nobody knows WTF were talking about {{ 2KM }} Right...bahahahahaha...was thinking the same 
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My belongings are mine. If you can't accept that then you are not Luna, whom I seek & is the only girl that I would ever be with. I don't go around telling girls what they're allowed to posses so why would they try to tell me what I can have? I don't want the girl that I'm with to be my mother. Telling me what to do, nagging me for no reason, and being a total drag. I'm capable of making my own decisions. Just in case you don't know who I am. I am Lunar, The MoonsDragonLionWolf, Knight Of Moonlight! I purposely used the word "give". Isn't to give indicative of willingness? It pains me to see so many jump to this kind of conclusion...as we weigh everything on the scales of experience. Have women really become such oppressors of men these days? No because I'm not willingly giving away anything just because you have problems with me having something and you not liking it. There are women who try to oppress and suppress men and others who don't. No differently than men. Sad, but valid point Fear, but that's not what this was supposed to be about. Everyone seems to want to make it about that kind of demand though, so yours is not the first time my meaning was misunderstood. So I have to believe I did not phrase it well, or this has snowballed from the first person who made this kind of response. There are many reasons why both parties might have to make sacrifices in order to be together. Whether financial, constraints in living arrangements, one party moving a long distance that they cannot take all of their belongings or allergies to...IDK...leather or whatever. If a VALID reason would cause you to make a choice of relationship or your stuff...what would you choose. That might have been a better way to pose the question in the OP...had I realized it would have taken this path. I'll live under a bridge in a cardboard box with all of my stuff before I ever give it up.
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"Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship?
Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items." both questions looks a kind of compromises which personally I don't agree with because both male/females can own a good relationship with keeping spare time to join own stuff by themselves or without giving up to their hobbies/passion etc ... that's life "Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay?" it depends if the partner will do the same thing 'cause sacrifice and stay for someone who doesn't worth it's just an insane waste of time/feeling "Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? " absolutely no :D |
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