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Topic: What do you contribute?
1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 07:13 PM
There are so many threads about what we want from a relationship. Why not ask what you contribute to a relationship? What positive attributes do you feel you bring to the partner table? Are there certain things you really enjoy giving to a relationship? Oh, and sex is a given...we'll assume you're ALL studs and love goddesses here.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 08/09/13 07:22 PM
You should probably ask my girl. I try to pitch in...love, compassion, faith, emotional support, companionship and whatever money I got for the stuff that has to be paid. We rarely got lots of money but we always have loads of the other stuff. :)

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 07:32 PM
You should probably ask my girl. I try to pitch in...love, compassion, faith, emotional support, companionship and whatever money I got for the stuff that has to be paid. We rarely got lots of money but we always have loads of the other stuff. :) Nice Krupa! That's one of the best things about love, it's one of the few things in life without a price tag. Electric bill? What electric bill? Life by candlelight inspires more fulfilling entertainment anyway.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 08/09/13 07:42 PM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :)

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 07:56 PM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :) So, you would leave him for having a small... ...closet?

mysterius1 Joined Sat 10/31/09 Posts: 528	Fri 08/09/13 08:12 PM
or her for having nothing up top

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 08:25 PM
or her for having nothing up top Hey Myster! Thanks for the heads up, but we were actually talking about closets.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 08/09/13 08:26 PM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :) So, you would leave him for having a small... ...closet? indeed

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 08/09/13 08:26 PM
or her for having nothing up top Hey Myster! Thanks for the heads up, but we were actually talking about closets. well now we know who to avoid..lol

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:28 PM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :) So, you would leave him for having a small... ...closet? indeed If you really cared about him, I have faith that you'd figure out how to fix that. I'm told you usually know how to fix stuff.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 08/10/13 01:44 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 08/10/13 01:46 AM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :) So, you would leave him for having a small... ...closet? indeed If you really cared about him, I have faith that you'd figure out how to fix that. I'm told you usually know how to fix stuff. buy a bigger closet for him for his birthday? that's the female version of him buying me a new vacuum cleaner because he likes a clean house....

sanjeev009 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 2115	Sat 08/10/13 01:49 AM
nice topic here

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 08/10/13 01:55 AM
I bring honesty, compassion, understanding, pitching in to help with household chores (washing dishes together can be fun) and my heart. I feel lucky to have Jo, and I want to make her feel special.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 08/10/13 03:13 AM
A female friend of mine asked me this question recently and I'm afraid that I said sex. She knows what I'm like though and she wouldn't believe me for one minute if I said household chores. Apart from that, pretty much what these other guys are saying. Companionship, love and all that jazz.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Sat 08/10/13 03:41 AM
1)16 dog eared trading cards 2)3/4 of a pack of juicy fruit gum 3)2 pixie sticks 4)1 new comb (free of vermin) 5)2 atomic red hot fire balls 6)1 railroad car flattened quater -well that's it for now.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 08/10/13 11:51 AM
I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :) So, you would leave him for having a small... ...closet? indeed If you really cared about him, I have faith that you'd figure out how to fix that. I'm told you usually know how to fix stuff. buy a bigger closet for him for his birthday? that's the female version of him buying me a new vacuum cleaner because he likes a clean house.... Are you sure it's got nothing to do with your habit of vacuuming in nothing but a low cut t-shirt and lacy panties?

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 08/10/13 11:57 AM
1)16 dog eared trading cards 2)3/4 of a pack of juicy fruit gum 3)2 pixie sticks 4)1 new comb (free of vermin) 5)2 atomic red hot fire balls 6)1 railroad car flattened quater -well that's it for now. Wait a minute! Is that the same gum you've washed and dried in your jeans pocket....twice? I'm afraid that lowers the bar considerably. And you really looked like a keeper for a minute there.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 08/10/13 11:59 AM
I bring honesty, compassion, understanding, pitching in to help with household chores (washing dishes together can be fun) and my heart. I feel lucky to have Jo, and I want to make her feel special. Awww....there's something special about time spent in the kitchen together isn't there? I love to cook with my sweetheart...when I have one. I mean a sweetheart...I have a kitchen.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 08/10/13 12:05 PM
I have a microwave time machine.

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Sat 08/10/13 12:06 PM
There are so many threads about what we want from a relationship. Why not ask what you contribute to a relationship? What positive attributes do you feel you bring to the partner table? Are there certain things you really enjoy giving to a relationship? Oh, and sex is a given...we'll assume you're ALL studs and love goddesses here.