Topic: don't judge by looks
Stan4life's photo
Mon 08/05/13 02:33 AM
i've been guilty in the past by only going for girls that met my criteria physically and in the end i sold myself short. At the end of the day when you get to really know someone irrespective of how they look then looks arent really that important, because when you love then i guess love makes that person most beautiful. Many may disagree and have their own opinion but this is just my take on it.Someone out their may be so good for you but then you judge them by how they look even before you get to know them.

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Mon 08/05/13 04:39 AM
Yeah i agree with you

navygirl's photo
Mon 08/05/13 09:50 AM
Yep, looks seem to be the #1 thing that people are looking for and personality accounts for nothing. Oh well; what are you going to do. That is our society at its worse.

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Mon 08/05/13 10:12 AM
Edited by MoonsDragonLionWolf on Mon 08/05/13 10:14 AM
Looks will always be judged.
It's one of the main factors of attraction.
Not everyone is attracted to the same thing.
It's different things to different people.

So even those considered ugly in terms of looks by some or many may be attractive for others.
There's nothing wrong with judging someone based on looks.
It's only natural.

However one should not assume anything about that person's personality based on looks alone.
The other element of attraction is personality.
There are some people who will judge other people's personalities based on looks alone, only to be blinded from the truth.
That is where the problem lies.

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Mon 08/05/13 10:18 AM
Judge judge judge judge

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Mon 08/05/13 10:25 AM
Judger!

krupa's photo
Mon 08/05/13 07:55 PM
Then again.....some people are just as ugly down deep as they are on the surface.

Looks are nice. A good personality is nice.

There are always exceptions....

Not every good looking person is a shallow bubble head.

Not every ugly person has a good personality.

Hell....my woman is beautiful inside and out.

Feel free to judge her based on her looks....she is just as pretty all the way down to her soul.

Candiapples's photo
Mon 08/05/13 08:21 PM
Who cares..get use to it. People constantly judge eerything