Topic: Is wanting to be with another women
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Sat 08/03/13 11:20 PM
Ok I'm in the best relationship now at 39 and is it wrong that I want to make my thoughts and imaginations come real ? And if I do like it as much as I think I will I want him to watch us !?:wink:

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Sun 08/04/13 12:41 AM
curiosity killed the cat. some fantasies are best left in your imagination. if you truly are in the best relationship now, then no need to find out if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. i guarantee i guarantee most people that ask for online advice if something is wrong or not, are really just seeking to justify what they have already made up their mind to do. godspeed, bulldog

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

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Sun 08/04/13 03:38 AM
I'm sure your man won't mind this coming true. However I am sure he will want to join in on the festivities. And that is when you will find your relationship will start having issues.

EdwardCB's photo
Sun 08/04/13 03:58 AM
Wrong in so many ways. Wat is wrong with some people. Why can't u just be happy with what u got. Damn.

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Sun 08/04/13 06:16 AM
Your man is the only person you should be asking...It's not about right or wrong, it's about consequences and your ability, as a couple, to deal with them..

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Sun 08/04/13 08:06 AM
If you're thinking outside the box, I really don't think you're ready for one on one.glasses Primarily becoz a relationship focus is on two individuals coming together. Three is a crowd.sad

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Sun 08/04/13 12:28 PM
why do they need to do that??was it called best relationship??letting people watch you while ur having ur private sex wid ur husband??,,ohh that must be called crazy!!!was it normal??huh good luck to that

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Sun 08/04/13 04:22 PM


Ok I'm in the best relationship now at 39 and is it wrong that I want to make my thoughts and imaginations come real ? And if I do like it as much as I think I will I want him to watch us !?:wink:
Whats wrong is that you are not functioning as a couple. You share this in a chat room instead of discussing it with the one person you are sharing 'the best relationship' with.

We have nothing to do with this. Our opinions should mean nothing. Your partners opinion should mean everything. For this reason, I think youre not in the best relationship, or if you are, then you are not the best partner by a longshot. Who knows, maybe youre just needy and hoping for attention. I hope for you, that you figure out who you are and what you really need.

Well said klc

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Mon 08/05/13 02:50 AM
Edited by s1owhand on Mon 08/05/13 02:54 AM
delicate topic. it's not "wrong" though. it is just a very
delicate issue.

most people can't handle it emotionally. it is too intense and
jealousies easily arise no matter how secure and laid back the
individuals are before a 3rd person is introduced into the
relationship. usually the individuals are extremely curious and
concerned about which of the relationships is closer and more
intimate and...well it takes a very particular set of personalities
to overcome that issue and it take 3 of them.

even if you ask your partner, they may not be able to be objective
and honest with themselves even if they want to let alone with you.

my suggestion is airing this in professional counseling.
get better advice than the internet.

proceed with caution or you could majorly screw up your current
beautiful relationship permanently.