I am looking for someone that I can be good friends with and maybe more if we hit it off. Yeah, I wanna find somebody who is attractive and fit, but all that doesn't interest me if you lack common decency and intelligence. I have come a long way with my education and health and have done so because I want to be with somebody who cares about that stuff too. I am not a born again virgin or a bible thumper, but I plan on not having sex again until I get married, so if you can't handle not having sex in a relationship then don't bother. This is the internet so the vast distance should keep this from being an issue right? LOL