Topic: A relationship with a married man
Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 07/27/13 10:39 PM
Once you put your foot down, and let him know you're not gonna be treated like a fool, he will pee his pants with shock. laugh. Sneeky people hate ultimatum's, because they no longer have control over you. And then let him know how pathetic he is. I think if anything, he might just deserve a dent in his ego. Then come up with a really witty comeback like "But the guy I never told you about, treats me way better than you ever could". drinker

bigwill325's photo
Sun 07/28/13 08:34 AM
LMAO!!laugh

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 07/28/13 10:06 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 07/28/13 10:10 AM
you said you want more opinions from men,
well your in luck! I have 57 personality, one been
a lesbian stuck in a man's body.
your just going to have to wait a bit.:wink:

a good point is brought up, it seems odd that
he's been deprived for 25 years and yet he
needs time? that may be reasonable if
the rejection, he says he's facing have been accruing
in the last two years.
she just may have bad libido, I've talked to many woman,
it just came up in conversation and they would have NO
REASON to say it other than its the truth.

I don't know why one could be so pro, one way or another!
there's many reasons.

to be so convienced that you were played and should
run down and support the psychiatric profession:-(

you said it best, time will tell all
there may be a day coming soon that you will need to
admit to yourself that you never had what you think you
had.
I know i've done it once for every relationship I've been in.
and the best way to do that is stop glorifying the good times
that's not healthy at this moment either as you may be best
not to sit idle,setting youself up for a bigger fall.
ten years cellulite, you say...no dout he's "g_d" in bed..lol
Having said that cherish the good times, in time as there's been
no real bad history,
because its better to love and have lost than never have loved at all
and that advice dosent cost $130 an hour.

"the preasure is to play, it make no difference that they say"think :wink:

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 12:03 PM

you said you want more opinions from men,
well your in luck! I have 57 personality, one been
a lesbian stuck in a man's body.
your just going to have to wait a bit.:wink:

a good point is brought up, it seems odd that
he's been deprived for 25 years and yet he
needs time? that may be reasonable if
the rejection, he says he's facing have been accruing
in the last two years.
she just may have bad libido, I've talked to many woman,
it just came up in conversation and they would have NO
REASON to say it other than its the truth.

I don't know why one could be so pro, one way or another!
there's many reasons.

to be so convienced that you were played and should
run down and support the psychiatric profession:-(

you said it best, time will tell all
there may be a day coming soon that you will need to
admit to yourself that you never had what you think you
had.
I know i've done it once for every relationship I've been in.
and the best way to do that is stop glorifying the good times
that's not healthy at this moment either as you may be best
not to sit idle,setting youself up for a bigger fall.
ten years cellulite, you say...no dout he's "g_d" in bed..lol
Having said that cherish the good times, in time as there's been
no real bad history,
because its better to love and have lost than never have loved at all
and that advice dosent cost $130 an hour.

"the preasure is to play, it make no difference that they say"think :wink:



Thanks, I don't know I should wait or not. We have no any of connection now. Even call or Email. Only the thing is I know, I still love him. He never promised to me or leave his wife. He said she is a nice person except sex. Whatever, now I am in depressed. I am trying to move on. That's mean I want to be myself first. I don't think I can love anyone again like this.
Thanks

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 12:05 PM

LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what

no photo
Sun 07/28/13 12:38 PM
NO MARRIED WOMEN FOR ME !
scared
That would make ME just as wrong as them


ridewytepony's photo
Sun 07/28/13 01:01 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 07/28/13 01:10 PM



LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my third post to you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 07/28/13 01:05 PM

NO MARRIED WOMEN FOR ME !
scared
That would make ME just as wrong as them




forgive others who sin against you and the Lord will forgive your sins:angel:

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 01:24 PM




LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my three post it you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers


Thanks ((ridewytepony)) clearing this, I am new to this site and I do not know about these signs, faces, abbreviations, is it. May be I will visit you with my daughter. Hay I found a female friend. Today I am going to meet her in person. I met her here in this site. Some people weren't nice.But I am fine with both stone and flowers. Thanks again.

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 01:25 PM




LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my third post to you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers


Thank you for your kindness and about pony ride

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 01:25 PM




LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my third post to you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers


Thank you for your kindness and about pony ride

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:01 PM
I don't think I can love anyone again like this.


I hope that the above-quoted statement means that the person will never again get into an adulterous relationship.

no photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:39 PM
Edited by bellefille416 on Sun 07/28/13 02:40 PM

I don't think I can love anyone again like this.


I hope that the above-quoted statement means that the person will never again get into an adulterous relationship.



LMAO. You are hilarious.

@Poster, i think you should let him go because he most probably will get back with his wife.

Whatever it is you feel right now, trust me: it will pass.

Other men will come. Better single men.

:smile:


ridewytepony's photo
Sun 07/28/13 02:54 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 07/28/13 02:56 PM





LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my three post it you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers


Thanks ((ridewytepony)) clearing this, I am new to this site and I do not know about these signs, faces, abbreviations, is it. May be I will visit you with my daughter. Hay I found a female friend. Today I am going to meet her in person. I met her here in this site. Some people weren't nice.But I am fine with both stone and flowers. Thanks again.


your welcome;-) that's great you are going to meet a potential girlfriend, I hope things go well,

try keep it positive and talk about positive things:-) do you think you have things in common?

like does she have kids? or of the same culture maybee?

just make sure you meet the first time in a public spot, always take precautions, NEVER trust

a guy that says he's there to meet you on her behalf!! not even if you talk to a woman!

safety first:wink:

yes that sounds nice,I dont have a wife at home:thumbsup: that means its all good, how old is your
daughter? elementary school age? have a nice time
jamie (pony)

N2000's photo
Sun 07/28/13 03:03 PM






LMAO!!laugh


LMAO??????what


Please consider the "Looking for: " selection when you read an odd post. Its just under their 'Headline'.


what what


the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was:laughing:

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my three post it you? lol ...ok then, friends firstflowers


Thanks ((ridewytepony)) clearing this, I am new to this site and I do not know about these signs, faces, abbreviations, is it. May be I will visit you with my daughter. Hay I found a female friend. Today I am going to meet her in person. I met her here in this site. Some people weren't nice.But I am fine with both stone and flowers. Thanks again.


your welcome;-) that's great you are going to meet a potential girlfriend, I hope things go well,

try keep it positive and talk about positive things:-) do you think you have things in common?

like does she have kids? or of the same culture maybee?

just make sure you meet the first time in a public spot, always take precautions, NEVER trust

a guy that says he's there to meet you on her behalf!! not even if you talk to a woman!

safety first:wink:

yes that sounds nice,I dont have a wife at home:thumbsup: that means its all good, how old is your
daughter? elementary school age? have a nice time
jamie (pony)

Thank you for your advise. I will keep them in my mind. Yes I am meeting her in a public place. She has a son, new to city. I will tell more about her after meeting her. I need some friends, I don't have any friends as I lived with my family in my past. I am not a party girl , still following some culture and values. So time to go
Thanks for everything

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 07/28/13 03:16 PM

Hi friends.
I had a relationship with a married person. We started it with sex relationship.On the way we fell in love.We had a good physical and emotional relationship. Later it is make us very difficult and hurt. I love him very much and he too.This is the best relationship and sex I ever had. I realized this would not working for me and I told him I cannot have this relationship anymore.

This is his story. He has been married 25 years. His wife doesn't interest in sex. He has high sex drive. He is not happy with his marriage. He tried to help her asking what is wrong with her and how can help her. But she refusing talk about that and going doctor therapist and counselling.He is so frustrated with his marriage life. She is not a cuddle and romantic person. She is busy with her pets and friends. No time for her husband. His kids married live on their own.

My problem is I have no any connection with him now. But he is asking time. He want to workout things with his wife. If she is not corporate with him, He wants to leave her. Life is too short. I want to enjoy my life.

I would like to know,what should I do.I am heartbroken. I want to move on. I feel bad to hurt him even though it is hurt me. I loved him still do very madly. He is a great lover, he knows how to turn on women.Very kind respectful person. I cannot believe how is she (wife)refuse this wonderful husband. Please help me what should I do.Please don't criticize. I value your kind feedback.Good advise preffred.
Thanks






You should run, not walk, away.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 07/28/13 03:17 PM


NO MARRIED WOMEN FOR ME !
scared
That would make ME just as wrong as them




forgive others who sin against you and the Lord will forgive your sins:angel:



Yeah, but does the husband have a gun?

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 07/28/13 04:00 PM
think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol


Oh you charmer you. blushing

I didn't intend on sounding funny when saying that, but it's good to know I made you laugh somehow :) After all, laughter is good for you. I was just hoping the OP would show him who's boss :). You were born in Britain? You moves to Canada because? Sorry, I just sound like a questionnaire now. laugh drinker

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 07/28/13 04:01 PM
think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol


Oh you charmer you. blushing

I didn't intend on sounding funny when saying that, but it's good to know I made you laugh somehow :) After all, laughter is good for you. I was just hoping the OP would show him who's boss :). You were born in Britain? You moved to Canada because? Sorry, I just sound like a questionnaire now. laugh drinker

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 07/28/13 06:35 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 07/28/13 06:41 PM

think or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
:laughing: I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol


Oh you charmer you. blushing

I didn't intend on sounding funny when saying that, but it's good to know I made you laugh somehow :) After all, laughter is good for you. I was just hoping the OP would show him who's boss :). You were born in Britain? You moved to Canada because? Sorry, I just sound like a questionnaire now. laugh drinker


wake up sleepy head:-) its only 1:45am
made me laugh some how:laughing: you make is sound like I don't
laugh, just because my picture looks serious, ..lol I know what you mean though
you always make me laugh...somehow.lol ... some of your post start out
like your answering to the op then it seems more suited to what must be going
on in your life.its funny/cute to me, good healthy journaling, keep us guessing...
thats how its done:wink: unbeknownst to you I'm sure.lol..IDK..I seem to like everything
different & everything different from me. I like questions! I encourage anyone to
ask, if ....??? clarification or what have you & I will always set it straight, I realize I do
give I lot of joke answers and it may no be my belief. ...like on that same sex marriage thread
when I said "its Adam & Eve not Adam & steve....well I don't think that way..lol
I'm from Cheshire England, birkenhead/liverpool but come here when I was four.
I wrote a twisted poem about the day I left on the plane...its really funny,
it starts out as pony at four years old and I'm really perverted in the poem..lol..
its long, but I'm going to post them all in the joke sec.....soon .((.pony's pathetic poetry)) lol
I still have lots of relatives there I'm working on my British passport as I never did my citizenship
here, but I'm applying for my permanent residence card first so I can come back (PR card)
ttul
flowers :wink: