I just wanted to see what people had to say... lol im not going to let someone else how to live my life lol

I agree. ny father ans stepmother have a long term marriage also where there is a large age gap (27 years, I believe their marriage has been)

Really what was the age gap?... I'm impressed to say the least

It's true, in 1969 I pitched a 15 stikeout game in little leauge.

what conclusion u want from community ... r u searching a mature lady here for dating that,s y u asking for age gap may be any mature lady like u here for relationship????

Hi AA

That year my baseball team never lost a game and my football team never lost a game. go figure

and Lynn Hemperly (15 year old hottie) kissed me right square on the lips that year. Pretty sure I said "yuk".

For most of the world there are no real limits, other than in North America which affects mostly white Protestants that seem to have moral issues with love having no limits or boundaries between 2 people hence their fixations on trying to set limits on an emotion such as love.
No religion has set limits on what love is or is not, who can love whom or not, nor on age as to who may may be allowed to experience it or not, other than what are designated as Protestant Church teachings.
Even in 'Catholic countries' the attitudes and cultural heritages have adapted to the Christian teachings of the Church as the Church adapted to the cultural and moral attitudes of the people. Islam has basically done the same but with more restraints and cautions in matters of love between people, not regarding those who have very strict and sometimes extreme conservative views. Unfortunately, extremists exist in all societies, both conservatives as well as hedonists. Those groups have a very common denominator of trying to totally control and dominate human nature whereas most religions try to teach open attitudes and to proceed with caution, discarding a narrow minded view of love and who may experience it, or not. We all supposedly learn to regulate our basic natures and emotions and learn to accept our 'human natures' with precautions both for ourselves and for others; it is called tolerance; an open minded attitude toward our fellow humans and the worlds we live in an try to adapt to each other without causing pain, suffering or harm. Most of us learn to tolerate each other or love each other as we love ourselves. Peoples who adapt to that type of outlook do not try and control or dictate to others as to what is or is not acceptable. Real love between any 2 people or societies are never regulated, let alone made into laws nor promotes harm to others nor to one's self, which in the case of 2 people, even in the world wide still acceptable custom of arranged marriages, an exit will by custom always exist in that if one or both do not love each other, there will be no decree nor ceremony of absolute marriage performed when both parties are recognized as adults, despite any 'arrangements' made before between families. It always must take 2 to love each other and to make any marriage work and all religions do recognize 'adulthood boundaries' for a marriage to take place. Parents set the proper or improper age limits for love by/ for their children. States set the age of consent to sexual matters by custom in most countries. Only in North America does the State set laws on what one may do or not do in/for sex and has even tried when one may have sex and with whom one may have sex with. Most states have made no effort to expunge those bizarre cult like laws from their legal systems. It is still not unheard of to arrest consenting couples for what is termed 'illicit' or 'deviant sexual behavior' if they are caught having sex in a car on their own property...so strong is the States compulsion to regulate sex and love. A true sign of a social mental disease still among us.

normally i go for older women but i've ran into the problem where i want to have kids of my own some day and i'm yet to meet a woman that is my age or older that can still have kids,so i may have to go younger.legal age of course

If it feels good do it , your young and at your age i had relations with older women and hey never regretted a moment of it .