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Topic: can some one stay without sex
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Fri 07/26/13 09:07 PM

Possible but not healthy. Men's biology demands it. Not sure about women. If you don't use it you lose it.


sorry but I jest could NOT stop laughing when I read this...yanno the fastest way for a woman to tell u to go tie ur shoes and come when when yous all growd is to "demand " sex

lol....that would make me laught at you....sorry...I am honest to a fault:tongue: laugh


also careful there Bud, your hot pants could be in the hot seat if it's not consensual

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Fri 07/26/13 09:59 PM
Yes, it's liberating!

N2000's photo
Sat 07/27/13 07:43 AM
Hi.A Relationship Without sex. My thinking is if both parties doesn't want sex then its fine. If one party want other one does't then it is not a relationship or love. It is just like a room mate or living like a brother and sister. This is very unfair to the other person.Most women refuse sex with their husbands.What happened husbands are cheating. Because they are trying to get their needs from out side where they cannot get it from their wives. I am a women who like to have sex everyday.
I would like to know what do you people think, should a man live in a sexless marriage. after trying to help his wife to get in to sex. I mean med, therapy,counselling. She does not corporate with these. What is your opinions.

Thank you

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Sat 07/27/13 08:12 AM
MOST women refuse sex with their husbands? what Are you sure about that?


Yes, the wrong treatments for any issue rarely work. I don't know any woman who feels cherished by the man she loves who can not get in the mood. A pill will not make you feel cherished. Neither will a councilor...well not the ones who adhere to any professional ethical standard, that is. spock tongue2


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Sat 07/27/13 09:49 AM
Edited by N2000 on Sat 07/27/13 10:26 AM

MOST women refuse sex with their husbands? what Are you sure about that?


Yes, the wrong treatments for any issue rarely work. I don't know any woman who feels cherished by the man she loves who can not get in the mood. A pill will not make you feel cherished. Neither will a councilor...well not the ones who adhere to any professional ethical standard, that is. spock tongue2




Yes in marriages,% is high in women than men. google it you can find about that. The person I am talking about, He has high sex drive like me. I had a short relationship with him.We love each other very much. He make my world rock, that is the best sex I ever had. The thing is his wife does not interesting in sex even she doesn't want to talk about it. He told me,he tried to help her many ways but she is getting upset when he talk about sex. I ended it because he is married and I don't want to suffer later. Still he is trying to workout with her. What you think is it work, will she corperate with him. we are in our 40s (age)
Thank you

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Sat 07/27/13 09:54 AM

not sure of the question.

sex is awesome. sex is not love.


Without sex no love, without love no sex.
If someone live alone that is fine. In relationship or marriages sex is very important.

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Sat 07/27/13 09:56 AM
Edited by N2000 on Sat 07/27/13 09:59 AM
I agree with you, unsure

N2000's photo
Sat 07/27/13 09:57 AM

It depends on why are we not having sex if we are in a
relationship? If it is a religious reason or we both have
agreed to wait until we are married, then yes I can wait
and I would have no problem with it.
Sex does not make a relationship, it just enhances it.
I know that when I start dating someone, I give myself a
certain amount of time before I even consider sleeping with
them. To me, if you sleep with someone right away..you become
confused. Sex boggles your mind and you are not sure if you like
them for the sex or if you like them for other reasons. So I
honestly hold off on the sex for awhile.
If you hold off then you also find out IF that person likes you
for you or were they just out for sex. IF they decide to wait
and they keep coming around, then you know they must like you
and it has nothing to do with sex.
I am like everyone else, I like sex but I want to make sure
that I am with the right person! flowerforyou


I agree with you

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Sat 07/27/13 10:04 AM

NO SEX
NO RELATIONSHIP !

:laughing:

You are right my friend.

navygirl's photo
Sat 07/27/13 01:02 PM
I know of several couples that are in their 60s up to their 80s. They are still in a relationship, married for 25,30, 32 years, and have no sex. They are not cheating on each other; just both have lost their sex drive but all seem happy with their relationships. So, yes people can live and be in a relationship without sex and still love each other.

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Sat 07/27/13 02:01 PM


MOST women refuse sex with their husbands? what Are you sure about that?


Yes, the wrong treatments for any issue rarely work. I don't know any woman who feels cherished by the man she loves who can not get in the mood. A pill will not make you feel cherished. Neither will a councilor...well not the ones who adhere to any professional ethical standard, that is. spock tongue2




Yes in marriages,% is high in women than men. google it you can find about that. The person I am talking about, He has high sex drive like me. I had a short relationship with him.We love each other very much. He make my world rock, that is the best sex I ever had. The thing is his wife does not interesting in sex even she doesn't want to talk about it. He told me,he tried to help her many ways but she is getting upset when he talk about sex. I ended it because he is married and I don't want to suffer later. Still he is trying to workout with her. What you think is it work, will she corperate with him. we are in our 40s (age)
Thank you


I could not find any statistics stating that MOST women refuse to have sex with their husbands.

Regardless of that, I don't understand how someone discovers that a married man is the best sex they ever had. How do you love someone who cheats on his wife? Their sex issue is not for you to understand...it's between the two of them alone. Adding a third party is NEVER going to help unless the third party is a councilor trained for couples therapy.

I'm assuming you are not a couples councilor. spock

That's my opinion. Sadly, it's probably not a very popular one these days. ohwell

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Sat 07/27/13 02:33 PM
If you used to have great sex and now you don't...it's not just an issue with one person. There's been a disconnect with both. Either reconnect or be prepared to live the "worse" part of "for better or for worse".


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Sat 07/27/13 02:36 PM


I could not find any statistics stating that MOST women refuse to have sex with their husbands.

Regardless of that, I don't understand how someone discovers that a married man is the best sex they ever had. How do you love someone who cheats on his wife? Their sex issue is not for you to understand...it's between the two of them alone. Adding a third party is NEVER going to help unless the third party is a councilor trained for couples therapy.

I'm assuming you are not a couples councilor. spock

That's my opinion. Sadly, it's probably not a very popular one these days. ohwell


At least you're being honest.

I think a therapist is a good idea for the married one in the affair. Or both. But then, some just like the sex part, and can't be bothered with therapy. :thumbsup:

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Sat 07/27/13 04:58 PM
lols...... 10 hrs.. ? mine is 10 days :smile:

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Sat 07/27/13 05:17 PM
Ofcourse not............

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Sat 07/27/13 08:46 PM



MOST women refuse sex with their husbands? what Are you sure about that?


Yes, the wrong treatments for any issue rarely work. I don't know any woman who feels cherished by the man she loves who can not get in the mood. A pill will not make you feel cherished. Neither will a councilor...well not the ones who adhere to any professional ethical standard, that is. spock tongue2




Yes in marriages,% is high in women than men. google it you can find about that. The person I am talking about, He has high sex drive like me. I had a short relationship with him.We love each other very much. He make my world rock, that is the best sex I ever had. The thing is his wife does not interesting in sex even she doesn't want to talk about it. He told me,he tried to help her many ways but she is getting upset when he talk about sex. I ended it because he is married and I don't want to suffer later. Still he is trying to workout with her. What you think is it work, will she corperate with him. we are in our 40s (age)
Thank you


I could not find any statistics stating that MOST women refuse to have sex with their husbands.

Regardless of that, I don't understand how someone discovers that a married man is the best sex they ever had. How do you love someone who cheats on his wife? Their sex issue is not for you to understand...it's between the two of them alone. Adding a third party is NEVER going to help unless the third party is a councilor trained for couples therapy.

I'm assuming you are not a couples councilor. spock

That's my opinion. Sadly, it's probably not a very popular one these days. ohwell


Go to yahoo answer or type in google sexless marriages

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