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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Awhile back, in my younger days, an evangelist visited our church and held a "young couples'" discussion group. She said something that I still remember after some 30 years ... "women are like irons, you need to warm them up first before things get hot, men, on the other hand, are like light bulbs, turn on the switch, there is light!" well I hope she went on to explain that as long as the light bulb stays lighted long enough for the iron to get hot, then everything will be fine |
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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Awhile back, in my younger days, an evangelist visited our church and held a "young couples'" discussion group. She said something that I still remember after some 30 years ... "women are like irons, you need to warm them up first before things get hot, men, on the other hand, are like light bulbs, turn on the switch, there is light!" well I hope she went on to explain that as long as the light bulb stays lighted long enough for the iron to get hot, then everything will be fine i must have a 20 watt bulb then... |
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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Awhile back, in my younger days, an evangelist visited our church and held a "young couples'" discussion group. She said something that I still remember after some 30 years ... "women are like irons, you need to warm them up first before things get hot, men, on the other hand, are like light bulbs, turn on the switch, there is light!" well I hope she went on to explain that as long as the light bulb stays lighted long enough for the iron to get hot, then everything will be fine no fun doing the ironing in the dark  oopps! the lights just went out ... 
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im gay ru
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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Awhile back, in my younger days, an evangelist visited our church and held a "young couples'" discussion group. She said something that I still remember after some 30 years ... "women are like irons, you need to warm them up first before things get hot, men, on the other hand, are like light bulbs, turn on the switch, there is light!" well I hope she went on to explain that as long as the light bulb stays lighted long enough for the iron to get hot, then everything will be fine i must have a 20 watt bulb then... 
that's a romantic light level...low wattage does not mean it will burn out too soon...just low light like candle light :) |
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UUmm, does the screen name give you a clue? 
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UUmm, does the screen name give you a clue?
maybe your just happy... |
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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Making a general statement that women are hard to satisfy sexually is pretty silly. All women are not the same. If you're not satisfying her, figure out what does satisfy her. That being said, yes, I would say you should be sexually compatible if you're going to marry someone. |
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I can adapt.
One wife would *** just by kissing her inner thigh. Another needed stimulation with a 20 horse vibrator. Equal or similar drive is necessary in a relationship where there is sex. |
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one doesn't need to be sexually compatible to their pattner in order to get married.Because they both love each other ,they will over look each others sexuall capabillities.
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Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know...... Making a general statement that women are hard to satisfy sexually is pretty silly. All women are not the same. If you're not satisfying her, figure out what does satisfy her. That being said, yes, I would say you should be sexually compatible if you're going to marry someone. agreed. I know I am not at all hard to satisfy, but a man does need some expereince in what pleases a woman or a specific woman. I think sexual compatibility is extrememly important and wouldn't give the marriage much hope without it |
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I had a teacher in Jr. High who talked about being married once. When she was asked why she married him she said he was great in the sack. Evidently the sex wasn't enough. hahaha
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I had a teacher in Jr. High who talked about being married once. When she was asked why she married him she said he was great in the sack. Evidently the sex wasn't enough. hahaha If that's the only reason you're with someone, of course it isn't going to be enough. |
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I had a teacher in Jr. High who talked about being married once. When she was asked why she married him she said he was great in the sack. Evidently the sex wasn't enough. hahaha If that's the only reason you're with someone, of course it isn't going to be enough. That was kind of my point. I hope if she ever remarried she made a better choice. |
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I had a teacher in Jr. High who talked about being married once. When she was asked why she married him she said he was great in the sack. Evidently the sex wasn't enough. hahaha I'd be a little more concerned that a Jr High teacher made that comment to children. sex is not the only factor and I can;t imagine being sexually attracted to someone who one is not compatible with in other ways but it definitely makes or breaks the relationship eventually if u don;t think it is very important than my opinion is that one is kidding oneself while swimming in de-nile and your partner is going to eventually have an affair jmho |
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I will say I was surprised that she was so forward. But she was asked a question and she answered honestly. I do at least respect her for being honest.
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u cn learn 2 b sexually compatible No you can't. You can learn to put up with crap...but that don't mean you will like it. |
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actually I would disagree to a point. You can take a person who doesn't have a foot fetish and give them one with the right kind of action. Breaking a fetish I expect is much more difficult. So my point being that if you are not compatible not on the drive of you sexual desire but on say a fetish or something like that perhaps. Then you can learn a fetish and find it enjoyable.
Case in point would be listening to The Joe Rogan Experience. Joe Rogan talks about how he didn't have a foot fetish. Then he went out with a girl who did have one and would do a lot of sexual play with her feet and by the end of the relationship he had a foot fetish. If you are not open to the new experience then you will most likely not develop a fetish that your lover might have. |
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actually I would disagree to a point. You can take a person who doesn't have a foot fetish and give them one with the right kind of action. Breaking a fetish I expect is much more difficult. So my point being that if you are not compatible not on the drive of you sexual desire but on say a fetish or something like that perhaps. Then you can learn a fetish and find it enjoyable. Case in point would be listening to The Joe Rogan Experience. Joe Rogan talks about how he didn't have a foot fetish. Then he went out with a girl who did have one and would do a lot of sexual play with her feet and by the end of the relationship he had a foot fetish. If you are not open to the new experience then you will most likely not develop a fetish that your lover might have. Really? So.....I could convert a vegetarian by feeding her my meat? I could convert a country chick to rock and roll by playing rock? I could convert a rock chick by playing country? I will take that bet. Lest we forget....Joe Rogan has made a fortune giving people what they want....he has as much of a foot fetish as I have a fetish for Chinese jet pilots. |
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actually I would disagree to a point. You can take a person who doesn't have a foot fetish and give them one with the right kind of action. Breaking a fetish I expect is much more difficult. So my point being that if you are not compatible not on the drive of you sexual desire but on say a fetish or something like that perhaps. Then you can learn a fetish and find it enjoyable. Case in point would be listening to The Joe Rogan Experience. Joe Rogan talks about how he didn't have a foot fetish. Then he went out with a girl who did have one and would do a lot of sexual play with her feet and by the end of the relationship he had a foot fetish. If you are not open to the new experience then you will most likely not develop a fetish that your lover might have. Really? So.....I could convert a vegetarian by feeding her my meat? I could convert a country chick to rock and roll by playing rock? I could convert a rock chick by playing country? I will take that bet. Lest we forget....Joe Rogan has made a fortune giving people what they want....he has as much of a foot fetish as I have a fetish for Chinese jet pilots. I didn't realize those things were fetishes. Unless you're talking about women who like rock star dressed in tight leather pants. lol Rogan also stated that for a while after with the next girl friend she would get grossed out or something like that by the fetish he had developed. Since it was something taught as I recall he did grow out of it. I also took a psych class where they talked about how a fetish can be given to a child, which is probably much easier than giving one to an adult, by showing them some what sexual images of women and shoes creating a link between the two. I would argue that if you have a vegan suck your dick and she swallows then she's just gone against her vegan principals. lol I'm not just talking out of my azz. I did actually learn about some of this stuff in college. Psychology is a fun and interesting thing. |
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