Topic: Ok what is wrong with me????
Ruthies1's photo
Thu 08/23/07 04:17 PM
You're alright... The key to finding love is friendship first anyway, and hey what are looks? One's opinion of nice looking may be different from another. I happen to be a bigger woman and am not photogenic at all which is why I really didn't want to put pics out there. But in the end beauty is only skin deep. And this is just a place to come and observe people, discuss, debate and hopefully make some friends.

txazdesertgirl's photo
Thu 08/23/07 04:37 PM
lol, not only do i not get any emails, i don't even get acknowledged when i respond to a topic!! I'm like the kiss of death on this (chat???) site. But I just keep plugging along anyways..... so don't get discouraged, you are not alone. But I am the bottom of the barrel. HA!! SO THERE!

no photo
Thu 08/23/07 04:38 PM
hi txazdesertgirl flowerforyou

I see YOU, we see you

s1owhand's photo
Thu 08/23/07 04:39 PM
hmmmm - i don't like to be critical.

but i'd say you just need a few more posts in the sex & dating forum
you gotta go where the guys are! bigsmile laugh flowerforyou

bobdesigns4262's photo
Thu 08/23/07 04:41 PM
did some one mention boobs?

shutterguy's photo
Thu 08/23/07 06:19 PM
maybe its cuz us real old guys cant read

no photo
Sat 08/25/07 11:39 AM
I will go READ U profile NOW!!!!

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 08/25/07 11:43 AM
You did not do anything wrong...
You just need patience... You are new and it takes time to
find what you are looking for.
If you have a list of things you don't want- perhaps you should list them in your profil (or list what you do want).
They have a filter for ages to contact you on there if you need it. Goodluck.

no photo
Sat 08/25/07 11:48 AM
Alright. (1) You are a KNOCKOUT BEAUTY. (2)Nice height 5/10 (3) Nice size.

Some who might qualify might think they don't. Why don't you move out the part that says: "Don't bother to like 'apply' if one doesn't fit." and let them 'apply' and you choose. Then what is 'very old?' Say like: "Between 35 to 57' or something like that?

no photo
Mon 08/27/07 04:04 AM
Hey your Beautyness. :smile:

hotandspicey's photo
Mon 08/27/07 04:52 AM
Hey tx, long time no see! whats going on?


Ok back to the subject, If you want to be on this site, you need to have some tolerance!
There are some people that I really do not want to meet, but age is not a big deal with me, because you cn be friends with them, and learn from them,you do not need to be attracted to everyone on here okay, just be freinds....that's all most of us want anyway bigsmile

hotandspicey's photo
Mon 08/27/07 04:53 AM
except Bob of course, he wants boobies laugh laugh

creationsfire's photo
Mon 08/27/07 09:44 AM
I agree with cute and ruthie.........I gave up on finding "the one" and decided to just make freinds. I put that in my profile. hahahaha

I didn't get many e-mails before that and now I get next to none, so remember that you must make friends. It is like a network. Maybe that heavy guy or older guy will chat with you and tell you about someone else to make friends with.....see how it can work?

Feel lucky and enjoy the attention. Fix your settings and enjoy the site. Welcome to the Institution, whhaaaaaaaa. j/klaugh

kojack's photo
Mon 08/27/07 09:55 AM
Binky nothing is wrong with you.

Don't prejudge though it is ok to look for certain qualities or physical features, but sometimes if you allow for some changes you can find someone aweosme.

Tneal's photo
Mon 08/27/07 11:02 AM
I'll take Kojack LOL I have an enless supply of lollypops :wink:

sherry4382's photo
Mon 08/27/07 11:05 AM
don't let anyone get you down...your a beautiful girl and if you believe that you will find someoneflowerforyou :smile:

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Mon 08/27/07 11:08 AM
your a pretty woman! just imagine being on the big quest to find the crossdressing midget of my DREAMS!!! it aint easy!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 08/27/07 11:15 AM
I have my midget barbie!!! I met him on jsh!!!! He also doubles as a back pack and a nightlight!!!:wink:

lily38's photo
Mon 08/27/07 11:29 AM
Maybe it's just me, but the way you phrased the topic of this post almost sounds a bit rude. What may seem old, ugly, fat, etc. to you may not be to another. Also, how must the men who have taken the time to write you feel about the descriptions you have carelessly thrust upon them?? I don't know if you posted this as a true gripe, an attention magnet or an ego booster, but you should really be a bit more considerate of the feelings of others who have done nothing more than try to strike up a correspondence with you.........grumble

Myrrdin's photo
Mon 08/27/07 11:36 AM
I get the impression that you are new here, perhaps your expectations were too high as to how quickly you would get responses. People on the internet are no different than people in RL. It takes a bit to "warm up" to a new person no matter how good looking or "perfect" they seem to be. In short, it has nothing to do with how you look or what the profile says, this is the third site of this nature that I have joined and all are very similar. You first have to get it in your head that you are just fine the way you are. Just because people don't respond, doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, it means they have an issue themselves that caused them not to respond. I've only been on here a few days and this is my first post of any kind, I would have been shocked to get any email at all. So keep your head up, your a beautiful person and if others cant see it, you probably wouldn't like them anyway ;)