do you think mingle realy work to search a good friend or relationship ?

there has been many on mingle2
that have gotten married or engaged


so yes it can work

Mingle is quite poor as a dating site for meeting people in your area. I've been on here for months and have only met two women through it. It's not a complete dead loss then but I no longer come on here with any serious expectations that I'm going to find what I'm looking for on here.

It's a free site and that means that there are going to be loads of spammers and trolls and people who are not seriously looking to meet anyone and only want to chat or read fan mail. It costs you no money but a lot of time if you are on here for dating and I really only come on here for the forums now.

okay so do u whet to chet with me

If you are talking to me , you are on a forum here and you need to say something interesting to get a proper response.

If you are asking for a PM convo, the same applies. I have no idea what we would "chet" about and you live too far away for dating and aren't disclosing your marrital status.

I have met a couple women from this site. Sadly they were not a love connection. But they were great women.

I think it can work out IF you are willing to
move. It seems like the interesting people are
far away but I am just on here looking for
friends.
If you want friends, this is a great place to
make lots of friends.

they were great woman? what did you do with then

i use mingle so many time but did not get any respone from any woman or girl all of they write i want friendship when i send friendship requeste they not accept it

honestly a lot of women from Canada and the states do not feel that inquiries from foreign countries are going to be of interest. we probably miss some great guys that way. So many inquiries, particularly from 3rd world countries are scammers or people wanting visa assistance, or trying to scam money out of sympathetic westerners. So that kinda ruins things for the men from those countries who are genuine, unfortunately.

I think the site can work if you are looking within a few hours of where u live now, but if you are looking to immigrate, many on here have stated that they are not interested in those types of long distance relationships, imcluding me.

My best advice to people who genuinely wish to immigrate to the US is to not do that by trying to scam western women. The best way is to work to obtain a visa to get here and then start dating once in the US

women will be more impressed at the efforts you made to get here at your OWN expense, than if you give the impression that you are looking for hand outs...jmho

and I don't mean that you are doing that...I'm speaking in general terms

I find so many friends here true

sanjee i miss u in my thread

timings when u online I offline sometimes we chat on thred

Personally, I don't accep Friend Requests unless I've gotten to know the person first, either through the forums or by messaging them. Starting conversations with people, to get know them, is better than Cold Calling for friend requests.

All the best to you.

every body talk like you

It is like dating anywhere else...It takes effort.

Long distance dating is an entirely different beast, but for local dating it is no different than going out somewhere but with an awful lot less chances.

Problem is that while you'll go on for years attempting to date this person or that person, we get a bad name because you can't hook up with someone within the first few months...Logic that is not, ridiculous it is.

all the woman talk like jaded,

((((sweetestgirl)))) and ((((jaded)))) are giving you the best advice you can get!!!

now from a mans point of veiw: I'm the same as the woman, I have 5 friend requests

in the box, and a lot are from woman that posted a few times or started a couple of threads

then disappeared, but not one of them, even if they messaged me first, put them all together

it wouldn't add up to a start of a stimulating conversation.

so that makes no sense. I have woman I met through the forums that are friends, we no who we are

but as far as officially on each other friends list, that don't matter to me thats not what makes you

friends, its the content of the converation not some official button.

Now sex is different! sex is the official button I'm sorry

was somebody asking me about sex my mind drifts.

anyways the best way to gain credibility is be consistent in the forums

then people will acknowledge you for that, then you may build a repore

with certain individuals.

My Doctor told me this a few months ago:

"take you time through life, there's no prize for finishing first"!

Pony,
You are wise sometimes and a wise-*** sometimes. Such a combination.

i have not found anyone though

lol