I have an obstacle before me. It is the web-chat. Now, I don't mind chatting and I am not a prude, I don't think, but why does it always lead to sex talk?

How long can you sustain a conversation about sex? Why not just go out and get some?

As for "turning me on", well I am sure they might, but it seems so depressing. It makes sex a bit boring.

Or maybe I have missed something. What do you folks web chat about?

i often migrate to music or creativity being a
common denominator. both can make for long
chit chats. writing together is always a blast.
i was once in collaboration with someone, he
took random pictures, i wrote the words. it
was very inspiring. if someone brings up
and pushes sex talk right off the bat, i just
yawn. you gotta bring more substance than
that.

yes, yawn.

I have met a few who want to write stories together, about SEX lol!

yawn

I have never done a web chat but
my girl will text me pics of herself
throughout the day and boy, does that
make me want to get home faster!

Sexting?
I raise my left eyebrow at that

No not sexting, just some pics of
her less than clothed letting me know
what is waiting for me when I get home!

So you like to be teased?

By my girlfriend sure!
She does that to me all the time
and I think it's as sexy as she is!

She is a very fortunate woman to have a man like you

Thank you Ms. goldenhinde!
It's funny that one of the first few
posts I commented on was your poem
about the rain. She and I got together
in 2010 and during a huge hurricane in
this area was when we went out in the rain
and "did it"

Angel
I am a challenged romantic. sometimes I am cynical, making me a little tarnished.

I'm not going to talk about sex to just anyone, and even then I'm not going to steam up my computer of phone about it.

A little friendly flirting, innuendo or teasing is can be fun with someone you really enjoy and have a crush on, but I wouldn't be comfortable meeting someone for the 1st time that I felt like I'd already violated 10 ways. How would that work exactly? I mean where do you start from there?

Inquiring about the sexual preferences of someone you plan to meet and possibly date is probably a good idea though, cause if he has a thing for pain, and you're allergic to it, you might save yourself some airfare.

JMO

Think about it like this though; for every one guy there is about ten women, that's like an HGH shot straight into Barry Bonds bulging left bicep with a baseball bat made out of a 2x4 aiming at a bead...Naturally sex will be at the top of that list.

Hit me up if you want, I just like learning...I don't have time for girl cooties anymore.

Well, I've chatted with a few guys here on Mingle2 and elsewhere. I don't do cybersex (it never compares to the real thing), but I've flirted and engaged in the mildest of innuendo with one or two guys (from other sites, not from here). Had one a couple of years ago where we quickly took our interactions off the site and onto e-mail and phone text, and while we did flirt a bit we honestly had some great conversations regarding everything from the arts to politics (which he brought up and we had a lot in common there). I miss talking with him... *sigh*...

Some of the best chat conversations I've had have touched on creativity, if I find myself talking to a fellow writer, musician or artist. Others have involved just general life experiences, funny stories, joking around... really, anything you can talk about on the phone with someone, you can talk about in chat if the other person is willing.

Interesting subject. Somehow the conversation always leads to sex, which I don't mind because I kind of provoke it :P But I do like asking questions and being asked questions in return. That to me is a sure way of someone expressing true interest in you. I'm a brain picker by nature so meaningless "how was your day" questions bug me. I like deep conversations about their perspective on things but only with someone I care to learn more about.

Anything but sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is nice, but it's something I like to keep private between me and whoever I'm with at the time. Most of my offline friend's think it's weird that I don't like to talk about my sex life. Goodness. . I'm a private person. Always have been.

"how long can you sustain a sex conversation"

0h about 37 years and counting

I've only talked here, on this site, so I talk more on the open forums about sex or

sexual innuendos than privately, most of its a fun flirt for me.

I'm more of a shock jock than anything, say stuff for the comedy, but I dont want the rise.(negative response)

privately I may say the odd joke thats sexually orientated put its rare .

whats web chat? like web cam? well that could be ok.

its safe sex and there's an ending

like do you like massages or do you like massages with an ending (I think the rub n tugs better)

what do you think?

For me "web chat" would be the same thing as chatting in person. So, anything I'd talk about in person, I'd talk about here.

If it's some random guy who contacts me and starts talking about sex right away, the conversation is going to end very quickly.

The funny thing about it is that said men who start chatting about sex off the bat, would never do anything remotely as gutsy in person, as that. xD

I am open minded and don't mind what the guy does, but I guess I don't know where to go. It's like I get lost and hit a dead end.