Few may be just lesson.
but what...If it is useless, senseless or just an abuse to life..?

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Every one look for a person who turn to be blessing to life..How ?
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Male, over weight to female for want of sex or sex involvement..does not mean he abuse her identity or existence but this is natural way to tender his love...
Where as , a female over wight external qualities of man...i.e..rich, handsome, moral, ethics and endless things, Sex does not much value her
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Is it possible to have blessing relationship by ignoring concern of other part with imposing self concern as prime or most important..?

I'm a confident person, most of the time, so as long as he is sure of himself, and what he wants, then I'm sure we could get along.

Err........well...........some people who have been abused in the past, sometimes turn asexual, because sex becomes a bit of a tug-of-war with their mind. They can't view sex and relationships in the same way they once did, once they've been abused. They avoid most stuff to do with sex. Sometimes they also go looking for other asexual partners on asexual dating sites, as they feel misunderstood, and just want someone who knows what it feels like, without feeling like they have to act like some sex-crazed maniac, just to get a guy/girl to want them.